Struggling with my sex addicted spouse


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This may be TMI, but he'll say things like "I can't wait to get you home and slam you". or "I want to hump your brains out".

We had (have?) a list member who told us how he likes to talk dirty to his wife during sex. I admit that I don't understand why someone would take joy in denigrating something holy. It's like saying that swearing at your kids is a lot of fun.

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The only thing I think I'd say is that intimacy within a marriage needs to be on a level that both are comfortable with, and not where one is enjoying the experience at the expense of the other. In my mind, it speaks to the respect and reverence that one ought to have for one's spouse in general.

Marriage, IMHO, is a partnership of equal respect and consideration. Yes there are different roles each must fulfill, however subjugation is not one for either spouse to feel the need to accept.

Wherever subjugation is established in a relationship, it has less resistance to spread to all other areas.

Just my 2 Cents....

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