The whole three kingdom thing, I just don’t get. It’s only in the Celestial kingdom that you get your family, correct? If I understand you all correctly, to get to the Celestial kingdom you have to have been married in the temple, correct? To get to the temple, you have to obey the Mormon rules. I have been through the discussions, I have tried to go to church, but the whole LDS thing is not for me or my husband. We have a strong, loving marriage, I know that I can walk into a room filled with women, and know for a fact that I am the most well treated wife there. My husband is an amazing man and father. We both know Jesus as our Savior, we teach our children to love and obey His teachings, but we have no desire to do home teaching, teach primary, and go to priesthood or relief society. We will never be married in a temple. So as your description goes, we will not be together in Heaven. We could go to the temple, we chose not to. So what will we spend our eternity doing, making Bonbon for the people in the Celestial Heaven? Jesus will say to us “If it would have just been Mt. Dew and not coffee your husband drank, you could be together.” I just don’t get the three heavens.