Sunday21

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  1. Thank you sooo much. I truly appreciate your kindness in responding. I have felt so alone. I have also been deceived by the adversary. I did ..finally..find out why. The Lord knew that I would really have to rely on his promptings in a very difficult time and wanted me to sort out what was him and what was not. Bless you for your help.

  2. I had a really tough time interpreting spiritual promptings and then I heard a comment in the last conference about reading the B of M for an hour a day. I started doing that and suddenly, in a couple of weeks, I could interpret the promptings. The voice of the Spirit became incredibly strong. Just a suggestion.

  3. Thanks! What would you do with a spoiled 17 year old? This girl would quite enjoy spending a lesson in the hall. She answers questions in a rude tone but doesn't throw things or stuff like that. There are 3 people who teach this class and she is the same to all of us. We all dread her because she destroys the spirit. It is tough as there is no single teacher in charge of the class.

  4. Dear August,

    You have the right to ask and get help. At some points in our lives, we all need a crutch. That does not mean that you are going to use the crutch forever, just until the leg heals. It is weak to use a crutch when you have broken your leg? No, it is a temporary measure until the leg heals.

    Call that bishop once a week until he arranges a ride for you. Furthermore, and I speak as one who has served in the relief society presidency more than once, when you can not afford to pay for LDS counseling, it is up to the ward to pay for it. That's what all that fast offering is for! What's more, we are all needy-desperate at some point in our lives. Just imagine how we will be just before we cash in our chips...we will be very reliant on other people to do things for us. This is part of the cycle of life and there is nothing to be ashamed of! As a member of the church, you have the right to receive help and if your bishop does not know this, then the relief society president or stake president should. We are all operating out of the same manuals...or have these people decided to start their own religion? Ridiculous!

  5. You have been through a series of horrible experiences! None of which are your fault..oh dear. The hardest thing for me to learn to accept is that one can be living the gospel as hard as you can and things still go wrong. Hard as it is to swallow, that's part of the plan. Even the best people get unbelievable trials. On a more practical note, the neighboring ward is probably just really disorganized. I would try calling the local family history center and getting the stake president's name and number and call there. After that try the relief society president. Hard as it is to believe some bishops, stake presidents etc are just unbelievably disorganized. We are praying for you!

  6. People tell you the plot of their favorite t.v. show and you can bearly believe that they watch such a thing! You can't read fashion magazines because of the "life-syle" articles. Your friends put on a comedy night to raise money for charity and you smile and buy a ticket but never attend.

  7. Dear Sister,

    Going back is always the answer. Medication is part of the answer. I would go along to the church building and wait outside for him. There are a lot worse things than being disciplined by the church, like not being disciplined by the church! Deep breaths all round. Hold his hand. Tough situation for you. You are in my heart,

  8. Dear Friends,

    I share the teaching of a Young Adult Sunday school class. My friend has the calling but she is overstressed so she is often out of town and asks me to fill in. One of the students is disruptive. I have talked to both parents and they remind me of her chronic health problems. Fair enough but through observation, I would say that the student enjoys control, perhaps because she can not control the health problems. The mother has said that we should talk to the student but the student fully knows that she is disruptive and enjoys being so. I feel like declining to help my friend by taking this class...but my friend would be sad. I doubt that anyone else would take this class. The Sunday school president's testimony is shaky so he does not want any trouble. Personally, I feel that if your child is disruptive in class on an on-going basis, and this the case regardless of teacher, then you get to have said child sitting right next to you in your Sunday school class. I have obtained a small victory in that the child is no longer allowed to bring her ipod to class.

    Any suggestions? Should I no longer take this class for my friend?:(