MargaretCordilia

Kids! And work,school,life, ect when you try and do too much. Too much stress is the only thing that has been hard. Oh, and him deciding to go inactive... Stress... But 6 years and 4 kids and going strong, there is no rule that says you have to fight.

It's been a crazy week, but we are good, now I know it is going to be hard to deal with people. Most don't know, but we have a baby due in under a month, I will still have her blessed and that's hard to not notice. It is just hard I guess, I love him as he his, but we both know that deep down yes, I would love for him to come back. So it is hard when others rag on him, this far it was just his parents, and they try to be kind. But I don't want him to face that alone, but I also agree with at least half of what they are saying. It's hard to balance. Is is right to give up on him?!? I have, I mean, maybe someday, but I plan for raising teenagers with an inactive husband, we have all girls I know he will be right there with me on no dating, :) Faceseast is ok, but does not seem very active. But I totally get it, it is hard to see how much is the same, once one thing changes, makes you wonder how much he ment over the years, what else could change. But we are good, going on with life, Christmas, baby, get into grad school like we had originally planed. Just sucks for our relationship that inevitably yes, I will be sad off and on. People will say things. Ug! I don't like people.

me too! it has never come up before we have always has a really good relationship, he never thought i would follow just that he does not want to hurt me, or make things bad for our girls. He feels bad doing this to me,I guess I just have to prove to him that we can make this work,I know we both worry that the pain will be too much everyday. I would rather an inactive/not a member anymore spouse than none at all, I am not throwing that away. still, this is rotten.

Thank you so much, my husband informed me yesterday that he wanted to leave the church, with a side of "I dont know if I want to stay married to you". We talked and i feel ok right now,he is a great guy, i have no intentions of divorcing him, I just hope i can be strong enough, he dosent help that as on now he has no intentions of even trying to come back, so I dont even want to get my hopes up, feels like someone died. i feel like your situation is a variation of my husbands.