hbrdba

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  1. No, not at all. I had a question concerning the issue and I do not intend to continue dating this person. My questions were answered. thank you.
  2. Please read all the posts. I have no desire to do so, please read all posts. Thank you
  3. Anatess, If you were in my shoes what should I do from here. My mind is in a cloud, and I can not think rationally
  4. clarity on comment, Then she is free to remarry.
  5. Thanks anatess, What should I do from here. My mind is in a cloud, and I can not think rationally
  6. The Church follows the law of the land that governs the marriage....... So in this case, I've been dating a married woman. I'm getting a sick feeling, anything else you can te me?
  7. Married in Brazil, lives in Utah. She had a Utah divorce, but the fact remains, she's still married in Brazil. will that help bring anything to light?
  8. she's cheating. and you know it. I've been in your shoes, I know it form reading your post.
  9. I've been dating a gal for sometime now and we are talking about marriage. We want a temple marriage She divorced her ex husband in the USA and I just found out shes not divorced from her husband in her own country. Do I stop everything and run from this relationship and in all actuality I maybe dating and kissing a married woman. Give me some advice here should we even be dating each other?
  10. Standards and Relationships work great, but when standards and relationships are in conflict you have a choice to make. Do I hold on to the relationship or the standard. Either will result in pain. If you hold to the relationship with this behavior you will have a never ending gut ache, just like you have now, did I say, never ending gut ache! If you hod to your standard, you will have a gut ache, but it will not be for ever. Your standard will always attract the relationships you want in life. Is it your standard to put up with his behavior? No! you have a different standard because you have concerns. Your relationship is headed for a disaster! YOU HAVE TO CHOSE BETWEEN THE TWO. Will you hold to the standard or the relationship. By following this policy it will create the following on both sides: Commitment, accountability, responsibility, integrity, and self respect. That's on both side, it's not one sided. DUMP HIM, create your list of standards. If you hold on to this relationship your heart ache will remain with you. I've used this post of mine in other areas, its fitting for every issue we face in Standards and Relationships work great, but when standards and relationships are in conflict you have a choice to make. Do I hold on to the relationship or the standard. Either will result in pain. If you hold to the relationship with this behavior you will have a never ending gut ache, just like you have now, did I say, never ending gut ache! If you hod to your standard, you will have a gut ache, but it will not be for ever. Your standard will always attract the relationships you want in life. Is it your standard to put up with his behavior? No! you have a different standard because you have concerns. Your relationship is headed for a disaster! YOU HAVE TO CHOSE BETWEEN THE TWO. Will you hold to the standard or the relationship. By following this policy it will create the following on both sides: Commitment, accountability, responsibility, integrity, and self respect. That's on both side, it's not one sided. DUMP HIM, create your list of standards. If you hold on to this relationship your heart ache will remain with you. Standards and Relationships work great, but when standards and relationships are in conflict you have a choice to make. Do I hold on to the relationship or the standard. Either will result in pain. If you hold to the relationship with this behavior you will have a never ending gut ache, just like you have now, did I say, never ending gut ache! If you hod to your standard, you will have a gut ache, but it will not be for ever. Your standard will always attract the relationships you want in life. Is it your standard to put up with his behavior? No! you have a different standard because you have concerns. Your relationship is headed for a disaster! YOU HAVE TO CHOSE BETWEEN THE TWO. Will you hold to the standard or the relationship. By following this policy it will create the following on both sides: Commitment, accountability, responsibility, integrity, and self respect. That's on both side, it's not one sided. DUMP HIM, create your list of standards, live by them, and you'll never have to seek for happiness, happiness it will find you. If you hold on to this relationship your heart ache will remain with you. life.
  11. Standards and Relationships work great, but when standards and relationships are in conflict you have a choice to make. Do I hold on to the relationship or the standard. Either will result in pain. If you hold to the relationship with this behavior you will have a never ending gut ache, just like you have now, did I say, never ending gut ache! If you hod to your standard, you will have a gut ache, but it will not be for ever. Your standard will always attract the relationships you want in life. Is it your standard to put up with his behavior? No! you have a different standard because you have concerns. Your relationship is headed for a disaster! YOU HAVE TO CHOSE BETWEEN THE TWO. Will you hold to the standard or the relationship. By following this policy it will create the following on both sides: Commitment, accountability, responsibility, integrity, and self respect. That's on both side, it's not one sided.
  12. Standards and Relationships work great, but when standards and relationships are in conflict you have a choice to make. Do I hold on to the relationship or the standard. Either will result in pain. If you hold to the relationship with this behavior you will have a never ending gut ache, just like you have now, did I say, never ending gut ache! If you hod to your standard, you will have a gut ache, but it will not be for ever. Your standard will always attract the relationships you want in life. Is it your standard to put up with his behavior? No! you have a different standard because you have concerns. Your relationship is headed for a disaster! YOU HAVE TO CHOSE BETWEEN THE TWO. Will you hold to the standard or the relationship. By following this policy it will create the following on both sides: Commitment, accountability, responsibility, integrity, and self respect. That's on both side, it's not one sided. DUMP HIM, create your list of standards. If you hold on to this relationship your heart ache will remain with you.