My BFF slept with my husband! You feel so many emotions! You need one to heal. For starters tell them both off!!!! After that hold your head high and don't give her another thought. She's not worth it! You'll be mad!!! Give yourself a week or so to be outta control then MOVE forward! Either to their face or in a letter you let them have it. Then go get your self counseling! He did not care about how the children's lives would change or your own so don't worry about him or baby him. It doesn't work!!!! You go talk to the bishop you find your own personal counselor and after you ale care if your self and the kids, if he has not done those things for himself by himself he's not worth it!!!! If he wants to makeniybwork he needs I put just as much work into it and more than you on his own I figure out what happend in your relationship that made him think this was ok! It the end you will be a better person, if he catches up keep him if he doesn't make a very happy relationship with him as an ex. Let the anger go don't worry about him and move on. If he catches up and wants to be with you more than anything then forgive and move on no more going back! You deserve to be happy and these two didn't care at all about that! We can all find new spouses! You in the end need to decide if you will be happy with the one you have. I'm joy sayin. Be controlling, I'm just saying at this point your feelings and needs a te above all and you take care of you and your kids. I found people are gossipy anyways, If your asked like I was about your BFF, just say I don't talk to her anymore, you should ask her. If people say why hey are gossipers if they say in sorry they caring! Send everyone that's asks about her to you her way let her explain the situation if she feels the need don't go to her level and say anything good or bad keep sending them her way!!! Good luck! I believe things can work out the best for you if you let it! Good luck! Don't be angry just be better!
