Mombe8

I am in a similar situation my husband and I have been married for 6 years and started the process to be sealed several months ago... Our situation is messy as we were both sealed to our former spouses and both have children from those marriages and now have children of our own also... I have done a lot of soul searching and praying about this subject and I as AmandaF am still hung up on the idea of my husband still being sealed to his ex wife.... it doesn't help that said ex is awful to me and degrades me to my step kids any chance she can but she passionately speaks about her continuing love of my husband and her eternal family still including my husband and even stated that she understands that I will now be apart of her eternal family now... I don't know how to emotionally handle this situation... I agree it is all very confusing and disheartening... When my Stake President said to me who know maybe by then you might like her... my stomach sank! He also stated that we shouldn't even try for a cancellation due to her statements in response for the clearance he didn't think there was anyway the cancellation would be granted...This has truly shaken me to core...