It is not respectful. It is the simply the easy way out. Everyone knows that if you say anything against the rainbow velvet glove, the rainbow iron fist will pummel you to death.
I just had a recent experience; I was told several months ago I'd be getting a new supervisor. I was evaluating this person personally to see what kind of a supervisor they were. Well, in the course of that personal evaluation, I came to find out this person is an LGBTQ+ ally, goes to drag shows, has rainbow sticker on her laptop. I already had several other reasons I was looking, but nothing too egregious; this put it over the top. I found another job, making more money, with less crap. I told my current company why I was leaving and listed this crap as one of the reasons.
"Hey guys, I really don't want to go to a work lunch and have my boss talk about how there are multiple genders, or talk about the drag show she attended over the weekend, I'm out". Lots of talks came afterwards trying to convince me to stay . . .nope. You guys choose a supervisor that is some left-wing woke person AND broadcasts it (I wouldn't care if she didn't broadcast it); I'm out.