johnnylingo Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 Thanks for your advice! My roommate moved out, and we left on bad terms. She was out of town for 8 months, and now she's back for the summer. I'll be seeing her at church every Sunday, and I don't know how to act. I don't know if I should ignore her, or sit with her if she's alone, or do something in the middle. Maybe I should talk to my bishop about this? My shyness, and the social awkwardness of the situation, have completely blinded me from what I want to do, or should do. Part of me is selfish, can't stand the thought of someone disliking me, wanting to appear gracious and forgiving and humble. Part of me thinks that ignoring someone at church violates the spirit of love and goodwill you should be going in. But most of all, I'm just too nervous to do anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Misshalfway Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 Have the two of you talked out your issues? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hemidakota Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 What does the Spirit within concur you to do? Then ask yourself, what would the Savior do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tubaloth Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 I assume she didn't move back in with you? It would be even more strange that you live in the same place and aren't talking to each other. I'm not sure what you expect to have happen. can you give her a call sometime? Doing this over the phone would not be as bad as trying to confront this in person? Or you could invite her to lunch. From what it sounds like you are in a situation you don't like being in. You want to fix it, but not sure if you should? Sounds like you should or you wouldn't have brought it up. Give her a call, talk it out. See what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hemidakota Posted May 18, 2009 Report Share Posted May 18, 2009 Confused over what to do for a shy person may have some play here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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