moocow Posted May 13, 2011 Report Posted May 13, 2011 You will probably feel better about yourself if you get surgery. I don't know if you're talking about breast augmentation or alterations below, but if you feel more womanly, it could increase desire for your marriage. Like someone already said, I don't think this will cure his pornography addiction, because I don't think any woman could replace the "porn star" look guys see in porn. It's too hard to achieve that, so don't think you have to. This would be just for you and how you feel about your sexuality. Imagine if you'd regret it afterwards or not. What are the benefits of both sides? What does your husband say? Your kids will have their own struggles regardless of what you try to shield from them. They will struggle with decisions like this too. I wouldn't try too hard to keep your struggles from them. Be more open! Quote
Martain Posted June 17, 2011 Report Posted June 17, 2011 (edited) I wrote this before 'finishing' reading the rest of the comments and finding out you went ahead with the surgury. Whoops. I'm happy that things have turned out well hidden =) Edited June 17, 2011 by Martain complete change Quote
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