foreverlearning001 Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 Being sealed to my xwife, now divorced. Im concerned about getting close agin and controlling my self. For years I was emotionally neglected. And crave that emotionally bond, I will do my best not to put myself in a postion where I could mess up. But its been a long time since i fel close and needed. Where I was sealed before, what would happen if I did mess up before we were married to the new girl? Im a little worried. Quote
FunkyTown Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 Well... If you did mess up, that would be up to the Bishop. It would stunt your growth and your significant other's and you could face anything up to and including excommunication.Is that what you were asking? If you were sealed to your ex-wife, you probably should know that premarital sex is pretty darn serious. What did you think the consequences would be? Quote
Vort Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 Being sealed to my xwife, now divorced. Im concerned about getting close agin and controlling my self. For years I was emotionally neglected. And crave that emotionally bond, I will do my best not to put myself in a postion where I could mess up. But its been a long time since i fel close and needed. Where I was sealed before, what would happen if I did mess up before we were married to the new girl? Im a little worried.I think I probably don't understand what you're asking. Are you asking what the consequences would be if you committed adultery? Quote
sweetiepie Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 I think he is very...uh...horny. :) Sorry, thats what I read. Gotta have control just like the rest of us try to do. Quote
Jennarator Posted May 27, 2011 Report Posted May 27, 2011 It is harder to controll after you have been married. But it is possible and many have done it. It helps to make that decsion. Make it everyday or before each date if necisary. Also, if you are close enough to "slip up" with her, you are close enough to take about it and set limits so it doesn't happen. I am in a second marrige and we made it to the wedding day. It was hard, but we did. Should you slip up, see the bishop, soo, he can help get you back on track and start you on the repentance process before it happens again.... Quote
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