babygirl Posted August 21, 2006 Report Posted August 21, 2006 I would just like to warn all the young girls out there to not fall inlove with a premie all it does is give you heart ack...and i know i know you hear it all the time and oh it wont happen to me...i understand that i was one of those girls, and now i wish i had listened. so take addvice froma girl who has just gone through it...DONT DO IT. you will more than likely end up with a broken heart Quote
s0ren Posted August 22, 2006 Report Posted August 22, 2006 Yep. When you girls (and guys) search for a mate, on a scale from 0 to 10, the person must be atleast 9 or 10. Someone who is like 8 or 7 might seem ok, but with time they will end up being like 2 or 3. Because, if theres something you dont apreciate with a person you are in love with, dont expect that you can/will make the person change that. You will have to live with that forever. So concider carefully. Quote
Dr T Posted August 22, 2006 Report Posted August 22, 2006 Hello S0ren, Nice to meet you. Quick comment: Your last post seems rather unilateral. If that person goes from a "8 or 7" to a "lower rank" then I hope you too are a 9 or 10 because the same might be said about you. :) Just an observation. Dr. T Quote
s0ren Posted August 22, 2006 Report Posted August 22, 2006 it was ranking relatievly to the person who ranks one might be good for one person, but bad for someone else. Quote
Dr T Posted August 22, 2006 Report Posted August 22, 2006 Your relative comment is understood. My thought was just that it goes two ways. If person A has behaviors/traits rub problem B the wrong way, person B would also have issues for person A. Dr. T Quote
s0ren Posted August 23, 2006 Report Posted August 23, 2006 If i bite my nails, and a person has a problem with it, doesnt mean i have a problem with that person not biting nails. Quote
Dr T Posted August 23, 2006 Report Posted August 23, 2006 Understood but you being ranked as an 8 by the person who does not bite their nails (according you your argument above) would eventually rate you as a 4 or 5 because you bite your nails. That is only an example. My point was, using your argument, the person judging and then the person that was judged would both have th "lowing of the rank" over time, not just one sided. Dr. T Quote
s0ren Posted August 23, 2006 Report Posted August 23, 2006 i think we are maybe putting too much in this now lol. I can rate a person 9 if she is just super duper dandy, but she can still rate me 7 because i bite my nails or something else wich she doesnt like. I dont nessesarily have a problem with her not liking nail-biting Quote
Princess3dward Posted August 28, 2006 Report Posted August 28, 2006 You can't help your feelings, but you can not steady date until you are 18, because you arn't supposed to anyhow. Quote
smile_always Posted August 29, 2006 Report Posted August 29, 2006 i was one of those girls to and it is really safer just to be friends untill you graduate high school lol then you can keep your focus on school Quote
Dr T Posted August 29, 2006 Report Posted August 29, 2006 Hi smile_always, I wish my daughter was old enough to read your thoughts! Quote
daenvgiell Posted August 29, 2006 Report Posted August 29, 2006 yes I find that too, I'm still in high school, and I've had boys ask me, but I've said no, its better to concentrate on your studies and wait until you are mature enough. Quote
8cow Posted September 1, 2006 Report Posted September 1, 2006 I completely agree that you shouldn't single date until after high school, and I've always thought that way. But man its tuff sometimes! for example, homecoming is coming up and the guys usually put such an effort into asking you all cute or w/e and i'm gonna feel soooooooo bad if someone asks me and i have to say no.. plus i'm on the committee so i'm gonna have to go anyway.. lol. but ya I've had situations where someone that i really liked asked me and i had to say no, and its really not as easy as it sounds! Any advice on how to break the news gently? Not just for me, but for everyone. (I'm no that worried about getting asked. ) Quote
LionHeart Posted September 1, 2006 Report Posted September 1, 2006 Hello S0ren,Nice to meet you. Quick comment: Your last post seems rather unilateral. If that person goes from a "8 or 7" to a "lower rank" then I hope you too are a 9 or 10 because the same might be said about you. :) Just an observation.Dr. TI think a good way to sum up this statement would be to say "Don't expect someone else to live up to certain standards if you are not willing to live up to those same standards yourself."L.H. Quote
Dr T Posted September 1, 2006 Report Posted September 1, 2006 Well said, L.H. If I used that though, I think he would miss what I was talking about. Too general. Thank you, Dr. T Quote
s0ren Posted September 1, 2006 Report Posted September 1, 2006 i was one of those girls to and it is really safer just to be friends untill you graduate high school lol then you can keep your focus on schoolto me it was the opposite.. to know i had someone made me relax and able to focus more on my studys, because i knew i didnt have to worry about finding a good girl (because they are hard to find) Quote
Princess3dward Posted September 1, 2006 Report Posted September 1, 2006 <div class='quotemain'>i was one of those girls to and it is really safer just to be friends untill you graduate high school lol then you can keep your focus on schoolto me it was the opposite.. to know i had someone made me relax and able to focus more on my studys, because i knew i didnt have to worry about finding a good girl (because they are hard to find)You really arn't supposed to steady date until you are 18. Quote
s0ren Posted September 2, 2006 Report Posted September 2, 2006 <div class='quotemain'><div class='quotemain'>i was one of those girls to and it is really safer just to be friends untill you graduate high school lol then you can keep your focus on schoolto me it was the opposite.. to know i had someone made me relax and able to focus more on my studys, because i knew i didnt have to worry about finding a good girl (because they are hard to find)You really arn't supposed to steady date until you are 18.says who? Quote
Princess3dward Posted September 2, 2006 Report Posted September 2, 2006 The prophet. It is in the strength of youth panphlet. Quote
s0ren Posted September 2, 2006 Report Posted September 2, 2006 The prophet.It is in the strength of youth panphlet.ah okay, they never gave me that pamflet :/ im not a mormon, so im allowed tho Quote
Princess3dward Posted September 2, 2006 Report Posted September 2, 2006 "allowed"? We are forced to follow Gods standards? You are "allowed" to not follow them? Quote
s0ren Posted September 2, 2006 Report Posted September 2, 2006 "allowed"?We are forced to follow Gods standards?You are "allowed" to not follow them?Im not thaaat religious to be honest, but in my bible i havent seen an 18 year dating rule mentioned. And God hasnt told me not to either Quote
Princess3dward Posted September 2, 2006 Report Posted September 2, 2006 Do you know nothing about this church? We follow a prophet! Quote
JoshuaFKon Posted September 2, 2006 Report Posted September 2, 2006 Do you know nothing about this church?We follow a prophet!Mormons really can't date untill they're 18?I have to say...I disagree with a lot of things about Mormonism, but you can't attack their moral characterJosh B) Quote
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