pooter1 Posted September 19, 2013 Report Posted September 19, 2013 I have a friend who used to be a member but is no longer a member.I stayed friends with her even though she made really bad decisions.She ended up having an affair with a married man.Broke that marriage up and ended up marrying this man.After a couple of years of abuse and pain he cheated on her.She was all over facebook how horrible he was,she learned her lesson,it was karma biting her back,never again,told us horrible stories that he did including throwing her adopted kids pictures in the toilet got us all upset at him and all of us posting motivational comments to help her through this.She got us all involved in her misery.Found out yesterday he left the woman he left her for and now wants her back and shes going to do it!!! The reason I found out is her mother called me one day last week and said she never came home all night long and her kids called grandma for help.Turns out she had stayed all night with this jerk and left her kids at home.(They are early teens) My stomach has been sick sick sick ever since I found out.What in the world do I say to her now? Quote
Guest Posted September 19, 2013 Posted September 19, 2013 · Hidden Hidden I thought you also had an affair fairly recently? What did you want people to say to you? How did you want to be treated?
Guest Posted September 19, 2013 Report Posted September 19, 2013 This is what I would say: "Please hand over custody of your children to grandma." Well, that is, if grandma is capable of caring for them. Other than that, I just might tell her to her face, "You know you're being an idiot, right?" Quote
applepansy Posted September 19, 2013 Report Posted September 19, 2013 I agree she should leave the kids with grandma. They are teens and not as hard to care for as younger children. Then, Pray for her. Nothing you say or do will have any affect on her decisions. Unless she decides to change nothing you say or do will help her. So . . . tell her you're praying for her and then Pray For Her! Quote
NeuroTypical Posted September 19, 2013 Report Posted September 19, 2013 What in the world do I say to her now?From what I can tell, it doesn't really matter what anyone says to her. If she ends up bouncing in and out of marriages with this and other guys, cranking out kids occasionally, she'll be numbered among quite a bit of women who do the same thing.The only person who can fix her is her. So love her, and don't take any crap from her, and try not to be too sarcastic as the next 5 years go by. Quote
pooter1 Posted September 19, 2013 Author Report Posted September 19, 2013 I agree with all of you.I just think Im not going to say anything right now because it might not be pretty. Quote
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