Rham Posted January 6, 2014 Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 So here I am again needing advice, my relationship with my girlfriend ended recently and I needed advice how to move on. She is my first love and I really loved her so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Backroads Posted January 6, 2014 Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 Don't try to move on in a rush. Let it happen. And don't jump into a relationship. If you're still considering that mission, focus on that for now. That will be a big help in the moving on process--not to mention the higher purposes of serving a mission. When you return, focus on being happy as a single person and new dates and friendships and relationships will come your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
applepansy Posted January 6, 2014 Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 Great advice from Backroads.Focus on being the best person you can be. Time will help you heal and space will help you heal. I completely agree with her about serving a mission. Just the prep will help you.Right now all or most of your thoughts are towards yourself. Start redirecting them towards helping others even if its just something written on a sticky note and put on the fridge, car, etc. Turning your thoughts to others will help lift you. Don't try to make it big, just little things that can naturally happen in the course of the day, but don't turn down any opportunity to serve that comes your way.Marion D Hanks said (paraphrase) Get on your knees. Get the Lord on your side. Go to work helping others.I wish you the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeuroTypical Posted January 6, 2014 Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 Time heals.(This is the same thing as saying thinks will stink big time for a little while, but it won't be permanent.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rham Posted January 6, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 Actually, I am only waiting for my mission call and I hope it will come fast.Thanks a lot guys, My problem is that Im really hurt the fact that she stop caring about me and I think I still care about her.I cant stop the fact that she enters my mind randomly and it hurts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roseslipper Posted January 6, 2014 Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 We know it hurts, it takes time and the pain will go away. Do as the others have said u received great advice. Let us know were u go on your mission. When you come back finish up your education and the right one will come in time....Some times you have to date many to find the right one!!! And it will be worth it!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Backroads Posted January 6, 2014 Report Share Posted January 6, 2014 Actually, I am only waiting for my mission call and I hope it will come fast.Thanks a lot guys, My problem is that Im really hurt the fact that she stop caring about me and I think I still care about her.I cant stop the fact that she enters my mind randomly and it hurts.Nothing wrong with caring about her. I have not even known my husband for four years. It is quite a chunk of time. Remember, you are in a mourning period. Eat ice cream, indulge in something. Big pity parties are no good, but little ones... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rham Posted January 7, 2014 Author Report Share Posted January 7, 2014 Thank you for the tips guys, wew. I feel a little bit better now but the feeling is still there. I'll let you know where will I be assigned.:) . I'll handle the dating problem when I come back on my mission. :v, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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