Hi, I've read through all these posts and agree that you shouldn't worry, about what you wear or what you use to get to church, we aren't about being perfect it's about fellowship and I think you will find plenty of that. I am a long time member that is just getting active again after many years and I use to have hair to the middle of my back and never heard anything about it at church. Good luck in this new adventure in your life, it is well worth it and I hope your wife will someday be ready for the missionaries.