The Institute For Authority Research (Dean Gotcher) talks a lot about the brainwashing techniques uses by the government schools and the controlled media to demasculinize men and defeminize women. Moving society and families from a patriarchael paradigm to a matriarchael paradigm requires a lot of marxist facilitators in high and influencial places. If a man's directives (or commandments) to his wife are not encouraged by her nor welcomed by her, nor willingly embraced nor carried out in love by her... If she challanges him , opposes, argues with, questions, contests him (especially in front of the kids) he soon ceases to give directives... and ceases to cherish her. He wants respect and she wants love... and Praxis kills both... then the family. Dad's power in the home shrinks and mom's power increase and their children take that and start families and have the same power struggles and she will usually win... for the law is on her side.. Women do not want another service project...they want a prince charming who is already fixed ... Their are so few POWERFUL MEN.. because their women do not sustain them.. Really sustain them.... mothers, grandmothers, sisters and wives. What does sustained mean? Big boys need to be raised and praised, propped up, made to look good, made to look smart, to be forgiven, loved, obeyed and women are way too quick to find fault, find weakness, compare, judge and tear down her guy with her smart and quick combacks . A woman can make or break her man... a great presider has even greater sustainers.