alucarD1975

Eleven Imhave more life experience in my big toe than you have in you entire body .....kid

You can talk to your bishop but they are not trained professionals...if you are looking for spiritual guidance I say give it a shot. Bottom line though if you husband admits his issues and has no desire to change his ways it might be time to move on. 10+ years of this? Really.....

Again comments are taken out of context... Can we agree that there is a diffrence between someone working on their weight issues and someone who can't put their fork down?

Really? Does everything need to be taken out of context? Does it need to be spelled out on a case by case basis? Come on.........

Thx I try

I'm sure that someone as smart as you can make a distinction between. A genetic issue and someone who keeps stuffing their face with twinkies and twizzlers. Like it or not It guys marriage is a contract...... If your husband was a poor provider you would be on here complaining about that also. Look we are off topic the question was can a man love a fat chick or something like that and I think that fundamentally the anwser is yes.

No kids... Cut bait save your money on that counseling crap here's some advice free of charge ........find someone who loves you and respects you

I'm sure we can all agree that your cousins husband is a jerk and that being over weight is not an excuse to have an affair. That said marriage is a contract if she gained a significant amount of weight the argurement can be made that she did not up hold her side of the contract. As she is clearly no longer the same person he married. This does not excuse his actions! The question can a man be happily married to a fat woman... Sure there are chubby chasers out there (a chubby chaser is a guy who likes fat chicks) love is also more than skin deep at least it should be. But if your partner has issues with your weight as a woman shouldn't you address those issues? Don't you want your mate to be sexually attracted to you? If you as a woman get fat abd refuse to lose the weight Or stopping having sex with him because you don't feel sexy.....and your husband starts looking at porn is it really ALL his fault? No not really.....

We are only hearing one side of the story, I'm sure that you are the perfect wife....... But let's assume that you are upholding you side of the bargin..... If what you say is accurate it's time to pack the bags and go. He won't change and you and you kids will be miserable. If not for you do it for the kids. He may not want to pay child support or alimony but if he has a real job they will attach his wages, pursue it and he will pay if he goes underground and starts working construction or something he can never have a real life ever again.

A little thin skinned huh.......but you did post the question on a public forum clearly you made it your business.....not everything is going to be sugar coated My intention was not to be rude but to point out that sometime instead of discussing these things Ina public nature the bishop or whoever he is speaking with should be allowed to handle it which it seems like that's what going to happen.....

I don't know about you guys. It I don't talk to my guy friends about their sexual issues or concerns.... Kind of creepy really.......If the bishop wants all the dirty details he will ask...... Otherwise it's none of your business