I agree it is SO hard being in the same town! I am constantly looking for her car when I'm driving around. I feel like I'm always looking over my shoulder or holding my breath when someone walks into the restaurant we are at. I can't imagine having the other woman in my ward!!! I feel for you. You're husband needs to understand what you are going through! He should be open to anything you need to feel better and move on. I totally get triggers. They're awful. The feelings that flood back. I'm sorry you have to deal with seeing her so often! I would definitely communicate your needs to your husband and not give up on getting him to understand how important this is to you. It's because of his choice you are going through all of this and he needs to do what it takes to help you feel better. You are such a strong woman for being able to even attend the same ward. That would be a definite NO WAY IN HELL for me.
