Confused and upset

[boringlad]

Recently, I found out my significant other was cheating on me with someone of the same gender. It just so happened I freaked out when I walked in on them, so I struck her. Then later, in all attempts to get everything off my mind, I binged and did heroin, ecstasy and meth. I feel so guilty, and tried repenting, but I still feel heavy. Then, my significant other finally decided to care about me.

Where is this relationship going?

[Dravin]

Sounds like the question you need to be talking to her about. She'll be able to answer the question better than anyone here.As far as repentance, continued discussion with your Bishop can help there.

[FunkyTown]

Recently, I found out my significant other was cheating on me with someone of the same gender. It just so happened I freaked out when I walked in on them, so I struck her. Then later, in all attempts to get everything off my mind, I binged and did heroin, ecstasy and meth. I feel so guilty, and tried repenting, but I still feel heavy. Then, my significant other finally decided to care about me.

Where is this relationship going?

If you're so mutually co-dependent that you hit your girlfriend who had just cheated on you, then ran out and shot up, did X and meth, and -then- she decided to care about you?

It's time to call it off. Neither of you are in a healthy place emotionally right now and you should work on yourself, first. My suggestion is to leave her and find your own self.

[MorningStar]

Recently, I found out my significant other was cheating on me with someone of the same gender. It just so happened I freaked out when I walked in on them, so I struck her. Then later, in all attempts to get everything off my mind, I binged and did heroin, ecstasy and meth. I feel so guilty, and tried repenting, but I still feel heavy. Then, my significant other finally decided to care about me.

Where is this relationship going?

Well, you certainly don't seem like a boring lad to me.

Where is this relationship going? Let's say your brother told you the same exact story. What would your advice be?

[NeuroTypical]

Nobody here can tell you where your relationship is going, but I have a request. Please for the love of pete, don't go making babies until the day that both you and your spouse can pull off a few years totally free of this level of melodrama.

[FunkyTown]

Nobody here can tell you where your relationship is going, but I have a request. Please for the love of pete, don't go making babies until the day that both you and your spouse can pull off a few years totally free of this level of melodrama.

LM makes a good point. Assuming this is not a joke post, if you're in a relationship where she cheats on you and you turn to a cocktail of meth, heroin and ecstasy to deal, then you probably shouldn't be considering kids.

[Gwen]

there is nothing in the op i would take seriously.

[rameumptom]

If I were you (and if this really, indeed, happened), I would turn myself in to a rehab center immediately. After rehab, I would sit down with my "s.o." and discuss with her what each one's future goals and desires are. No relationship will make it if built upon the childish and selfish interactions of two immature people. She must be serious about your relationship to not go elsewhere, and you must be serious enough to deal with life without endangering your life and everything else.

If you both have the same goals, then work towards those goals. But at this point, neither of you is truly ready for a real and lasting relationship, as you both have shown yourselves to be selfish and childish. Grow up before you continue this or any other relationship.

[Gwen]

Recently, I found out my significant other was cheating on me with someone of the same gender. It just so happened I freaked out when I walked in on them, so I struck her. Then later, in all attempts to get everything off my mind, I binged and did heroin, ecstasy and meth. I feel so guilty, and tried repenting, but I still feel heavy. Then, my significant other finally decided to care about me.

Where is this relationship going?

why are we still giving serious responses to this? assuming it's real, let's break this down.

a perfectly decent person with no violent tendencies doesn't just up and hit ppl. i don't care what act they catch them in. i have been so mad i saw red, i did want to kill someone with every fiber of my being but guess what? i didn't. because ppl that don't do that, don't do that. so the fact that anyone was "struck" suggests prior anger management issues. i'm not suggesting good can't be pushed to lose control but let's be realistic.

after this out of character freaking out hitting of someone we go to binge on heroin, ecstasy, and meth? those are not "innocent" gateway drugs. you don't just accidentally binge on them. if you have never done drugs you wouldn't even know where to find them on short notice. so either the op has a history of serious drug use (might go hand in hand with prior anger management issues) or it's a total lie. someone that has never been into drugs who decides to cope with chemicals for the first time will most likely start with a beer, or a smoke of something legal, or stolen prescriptions from someone they know. you don't just jump into meth, etc. cause you are upset.

so now you feel guilty because you have hit someone and done drugs and you managed to do it all in a very short period of time and not over dose so you want to repent? you probably still feel heavy because of all the lies you tell yourself/others, forget the drugs or affair (which suggests you were having sex with her at some point as well).

and now suddenly this wonderful girl wants to get back with you? quite frankly she's an idiot to want to be with someone that has anger management issues and is into so much illicit drug use. but then the fact that she was with you to begin with and foolish enough to get caught in an affair not sure i was holding out much hope for her intelligence level.

and after all this the final question is not to be over looked. "where is this relationship going?" lol are you serious? not how did my life end up in this train wreak, or how do i repent and turn to god and fix it? not i'm totally lost and don't want to live like this anymore? not where do i turn for help with my drug issues? not.... any number of things that suggest a real desire to make the changes in life that would come with true repentance. where is the relationship going? no where. it's a relationship about sex and drug use. and she seems to want sex with more than just you. so you either move on or count yourself lucky that you found someone that will put up with your bs and accept it. but it's not "going" anywhere.

and to put the icing on the cake the op wants advice from mormons? obviously this person is not a member and by the final question has no desire to live our lifestyle. which is fine, live your life as it makes you happy. but don't ask for advise from ppl that obviously won't agree with any of your choices and expect something that will be helpful to you. and don't waste our time.

wrong site.

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