rena_goldmoon

My brother-in-law is autistic and so is my brother. Well my brother has never been officially diagnosed but once I met my brother in law I realised he mirrored my brother alot.

They have a show called Destination Truth on the Sci-Fi channel thats sometimes interesting. They try to debunk sightings in different countries of various "mythical" creatures.

My husband would love this.

Hormones are hard to "control" and the family are the people who get on your nerves the most because you care about them the most. I went to visit my family a couple weeks ago and it got so bad my husband told me maybe I shouldnt talk to them until the baby comes because hes afriad Im going to get so upset I misscarry. On the excitment thing, when I told my parents we were pregnant my mom screamed for joy and my sisiters were screaming too. This is their first grandbaby. We told my husbands family and his Mom said "Are you serious?" It was a happy are you serious but she has never asked my how im doing or how the pregnancys going except for once when she asked how big the baby was getting and put her hands up about 4 inches. Try twice that big. She said, "No way. Your that far along?" I think she is going to think the babies coming prematurely when we call her to go to the hospital! lol! Anyhow this will be their 4th grandbaby. My husbands younger sister has already had 3. They are already grandparents so its not an exciting transition in theyre life but Im sure they will be excited once hes born. On the sister thing. My sister just got engaged and is getting married next month. She wants me to be her matron of honor. I have never met her fiance and the whole thing is stressing me out. She forgot she was supposed to throw me a baby shower next month and told me I needed to find a dress now for her wedding. Ha! I will be 1 month away from having the baby. How am I supposed to know what size I will be. A lot of other things going on with that but its a long story so. Anyhow I was suprised to see someone going through almost the same thing I am. I just think my husbabnd is excited and he is all that matters. Even though the rest hurts me, getting upset by thinking about it just gives me migranes so I'll just think about my little one on the way instead. I hope you have a better day!

Good luck!

Happiness

Its not LDS though.

Im guessing its Christian because it involves Christ.

Has anyone seen The Nativity movie that came out the year before last at Christmas I think. I thought it was beautiful.

warmth

We use All. It smells good and seems to work well and is relatively inexpensive.

I want to start quilting. Ive helped my sister-in-law a couple of times with hers but really havent gotten the motavation to start one myself. I think the motivations coming though because I have a baby on the way. It'd be nice to make something for baby from me. That way he will always have something I made myself. Currently Im painting paper parasols to sell at a fair of sorts. Its a family project involving my parents and brothers and sisters so we can raise money for if one of us falls on hard times. Its challenging coming up with Ideas that wont turn out corny or cheap looking. My husband and I both love to paint but besides the parasols havent had much time for it.

She may not know what her oppinion clearly is. My husband asks me all the time what I want and sometime I just dont know. Her going to God about it just show that she has respect for what you have asked and wants to have clear answer instead of saying "I dont know." or "I dont care." It may not be a big thing to you but it abviously is to her. And on the jewelry thing. I hate picking out jewelry and probably would pick out the cheapest thing I could find if my husband asked me but I love it when he picks it out something himself and surprises me with it. I think both of you have communication problems and just need to sit down and discuss things. The reasons for why both of you do things. You rarely have arguments. Thats great but do you have discussions. My husband and I have lengthy discussions sometimes and sometimes I cry durring them not because hes being hurtfull but because its hard to lay out your feelings and expect the other person to understand but afterwards we are so much closer and stronger because we relize what the other person is going through and whatever was irritating us is not such an irritant anymore. Either that or we relise what we were doing was irritating and stupid and we both end up better people for the discussion.

Babies!

Oooo. Me too but we dont have the money right now but I need a vacation soooooo bad.

I agree with the therapy thing. They will be able to help you to learn to love your wife. Although I think you love your wife and dont know it. I was watching the BYU channal several years ago and a General Authority stated (I forget who) that you will know it is true love and not just infatuation or lust when they make you want to be a better person and you truly care for their well being both physicaly and emotionally. You abviously care about your wife and she abviously makes you want to be a better person. Love and faith are both cultivated. You have to want both of them. If you have a desire to love your wife more then that is the start. Start treating her the way you think she should be treated and see if that sparks anything. The other question is do you have a desire to have faith? I dont beleive you should ever lie to your spouse or keep anything from them but I do beleive you should work it out within and see if you can find what you truly want first. Unless you can come to terms with it yourself and are able to work through it by yourself first you are going to have to tell her. And yes its going to blind side her and hurt her very much if you believe her to be the faithful loving person she is. Its going to hurt that you didnt tell her and hurt that you are struggling and most definatly hurt that you dont think you love her. She knows the church brings her joy and would want that for her husband and family. Ive grown up with a father just like you and he is finally relizing that all along he loved my mother and yes its been hard without the preisthood. He didnt come to my sealing and that hurt a bit but I know he loves me and it would all be sorted out later. I dont know if I am being of any help but just felt that I needed say something.

Last week I went to my neices 3rd birthday. She was unrapping presents and when she came to one she said, "This is freakin awsome!" We all died laughing. A week or so before her mom told her I was having a baby and she asked where it was. Pointing to my stomache I told her it was in my tummy still. She said let me see and lifted up my shirt to look at my belly. She then proceeded to put her eye to my bellybutton and exclaim, "Its dark in there!" Lol!

I found out last wednesday Im having a boy too!

I would throw it away. If you dont want to contribute to your own kids immorality why would you inadvertintly do it to someone else. Not trying to be rude but you asked for oppinions.

I find it romantic when he thinks of me and runs me a bubble bath right before bed. He makes sure its not too hot because Im pregnant and he knows I have a hard time sleeping because of the aches and pains.

In a waffle cone! Ben and Jerry's or Breyers?

I think they also said something about they loved eachother so much they wanted it to be forever.

I mean Sealing...sorry.

I went to a reception for two friends from college and they had a ring cerimony. His parents are not members. They gave short testimonies on what the cealing ment to them and that because the cealing was forever, not just til death do us part, the ring was a symbol of that and theyre love for eachother. It was beautiful.

So heres a new one from my neice. Shes almost 3 and her name is Kellie. My husband and I were at her house visiting and it had rained very hard. There was a big puddle in her front yard. She was on the porch and was trying to get my husband to let her off the porch. She kept pointing at the puddle and saying something. He leaned in closer to hear her better and relised she was saying, "I want to swim in Lake Kellie!" He cracked up! She had named the puddle after herself!