^^this^^ I live in Utah now, what a culture shock and I have been lds all my life. One time I was asked to bring dinner to a new mom that already had a small child. When I brought in the dinner, her house was spotless...I about died. And then I thought no wonder we have so many problems, everyone is trying to be perfect. Utah lds women are tough for me...I am a tomboy and usually have dirt in my fingernails. I wear the same dress every week and never stay to chit chat. I hate going to women's night because I have to endure the weeks gossip. And I really could care less what sis. so and so daughter wore to prom, or how many pages she managed to scrapbook last night. I go to church to worship, I really could care less about the social network. Oh, and polygamy really bothers me too...I try not to dwell on it because it causes me to doubt. And satan will use anything to turn me from God.