I'm not Ray, but can I try? Just out of respect. If you can get sunday wear, please wear it to church. That is for the people who are already members, and have no tatoos. Modesty is important. You mean, strongly encouraged you don't do... Where do you live that the LDS church there doesn't focus on God and Jesus? Our church is ALL ABOUT being like them. You are focusing on a problem of the church, and ignoring everything about God and Jesus, because you are blinded with problems dressing modestly. Jesus loves everyone equilly. We have never taught any different. He even loves the skanks... but that does not mean you should be one. We don't judge people. :) So I can go out and beak the law of chastity, but as long as I believe in him.. I am saved. I can kill a few people to!!!!No one has ever regretted keeping the commandments, and that is not as easy as, "Ya Jesus.. I know your there. Now I am saved. LDS does not believe salvation is that easy. It isn't about what you can and can not do!It is about prophets and Jesus' restored church and being sealed to your family for all time and eturnity! If that isn't for you, I am very sorry to hear that. If you have been learning about Joseph smith, and know he is a true prophet like you should be if you were thinking about converting, and KNOW he was a true prophet, why would you be hung up on a problem that doesn't even exist?