StrawberryFields Posted February 19, 2009 Report Posted February 19, 2009 Feel Paranoid? You Might BeAre we more paranoid? Experts think so.By Lindsay Lyon, U.S. News & World Report Your friends chuckle after you excuse yourself to use the bathroom. They must be mocking you. Your boss didn't say "hello" in the hallway—so you're about to be fired. A woman bumps into you at the store. It must be intentional. Strangers on the street are cloaking pistols; your child is destined to be kidnapped en route to school. The government is monitoring your e-mails.If your friends are kidding you about paranoia, it turns out they might not be all that far off. Daniel Freeman, a clinical psychologist at The Institute of Psychiatry, King's College London, and one of the world's leading authorities on paranoia, notes in the book Paranoia: The 21st Century Fear (Oxford University Press, 2008), that an unfounded or exaggerated distrust of others, once believed only to be a mark of severe mental illness, is actually commonly experienced by ordinary people and appears to be on the rise. Estimates suggest that 1 in 4 of us, or about a quarter of the population, is routinely plagued by paranoid thoughts, and Freeman blames the media's affinity for repeated, graphic, extreme reports of threats along with unprecedented levels of city dwelling. Paranoia rates are twice as high in urban areas as in rural ones, he says.Freeman doesn't suggest that there aren't legitimate threats in the world but that more people are struggling with assessing them accurately. When on chronic high alert, an ambiguous situation is apt to seem dangerous; a neutral intent, malignant. "Sometimes, we just get it wrong," he says. (Recall an incident in January when nine Muslims were booted from an airplane after other passengers interpreted their reportedly benign remarks suspiciously.)Freeman cites an example of the downside of overreacting in his book, co-written with his brother, writer and editor Jason Freeman. Despite the relatively low risk, parents are often so concerned with keeping their children safely away from pedophiles that they quarantine them indoors, creating a real threat to their well being. Millions of U.S. children are overweight, which puts them at risk for heart troubles, diabetes, and other serious health problems. That far outweighs the risk of kidnap. Same with terrorism, Freeman notes. Cigarette-related illness and traffic accidents kill many multiples of Americans annually of the number of lives claimed by the 9/11 attacks."People are very edgy right now," says Dennis Combs, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Texas-Tyler who also believes that paranoia is mounting. The economic slump doesn't help matters, he says, as people facing layoffs may be more apt to question the motives of co-workers. His own research has found paranoid thoughts to be prevalent among members of minority groups; they are more likely to feel that they're being monitored, say, when they're just trying to buy groceries. But he's also found that ordinary college students have paranoid thoughts. All the suspicions aren't likely good for us, Freeman says, referencing a study of 8,000 people across 40 U.S. states showing that areas with higher levels of mistrust had less social cohesion and higher death rates. Just a 10 percent boost in trust levels was associated with an 8 percent drop in death rates, he says.For most people, day-to-day paranoid thoughts are fleeting and easily shaken. For others, however, they become believable and begin to interfere with their lives. The effects can be visceral. Those affected can begin taking precautions against very rare events. They can be overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, and emotional problems, which may erode relationships, says Combs. "We withdraw, we avoid, and we lose contact with people," Freeman explains. If every time a person is with friends, he is paranoid about what they will say when he gets up or is suspicious of what a smile means, for instance, he misses the opportunity to become engaged and becomes overly self-focused. That creates a self-fulfilling prophecy. People sense the insecurity and conclude the person's not very good company. "You get confirmation of your fears," says Freeman.But paranoia can also be protective, reminds longtime clinical psychologist Martin Harrow, a professor of psychology with the University of Illinois-Chicago's psychiatry department. Didn't get that promotion? The boss must not like women. Didn't earn an A? The instructor must harbor a grudge. Though this sort of thinking is unrealistic, some experts have theorized that a little paranoia can ward off depression in some people. "It may arise," he says, "to avoid blaming ourselves."Feel Paranoid? You Might Be - MSN Health & Fitness - DepressionI came across the above article and thought it to be interesting. My sister in law and I were just talking about this last night. Quote
Gwen Posted February 19, 2009 Report Posted February 19, 2009 couldn't help but notice this in your signature "We are all being watched.... StrawberryFields" loldoes it count as paranoia when it's true.... like when a friend says "we were making fun of you the other night"......... hummmm nah no reason to be paranoid. lol Quote
Jbs2763 Posted February 19, 2009 Report Posted February 19, 2009 yeah, im quie the paranoid goose myself. it seems the world is quite out to get me Quote
Palerider Posted February 20, 2009 Report Posted February 20, 2009 Lets not forget.....If your Bishop doesn't say hello to you at church...you are suppose to get mad and never go back to church again....:) Quote
Palerider Posted February 20, 2009 Report Posted February 20, 2009 me paranoid? WHY do you ask? I thought all Lakers fans were paranoid...:) Quote
Dr T Posted February 20, 2009 Report Posted February 20, 2009 hahaha well yeah, have u ever been to Los Angeles? Quote
siouxz72 Posted February 20, 2009 Report Posted February 20, 2009 lol! I'm so the opposite of paranoid. What is that word? Like I never assume that peoples worlds revolve around me so why should they be talking about me?! lol! Quote
Dr T Posted February 20, 2009 Report Posted February 20, 2009 uh...is the word you're looking for "clueless" S? Quote
Palerider Posted February 20, 2009 Report Posted February 20, 2009 aaahhhh yes....clueless....in the Dinning Room with the rope... Quote
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