all the advice given is good. just continue to go. meet people, join in with them and become a friend to a family and join t hem in sitting with them in church, fhe...etc...i only member too. so i know how u feel. the church is very family related. The church is a big family Learn and grow and u never know what miracles, and blessing lay around the corner u might be surprised when some one in your family looks up to you and joins. How great will be your joy. In the mean time mingle, mingle, mingle.