Thank you all for sharing your thoughts so far. The more I look at this question, the more I wonder about someone’s core beliefs and their justification for them. I then think that anyone in opposition to them, no matter what motive they have for addressing such beliefs, would have a hard time not being offensive. I haven't done much reading/thought about relativism and I tend to out of hand dismiss it as “not my philosophy.” I wonder though about core beliefs such as sanctity of children. "Child abuse is wrong" or people's thoughts about same sex marriage. If we were to disagree with whatever topic that is opposed to someone's core belief, if we spoke up about it, aired out thoughts about it, it seems that it would be offensive (at the core) to that person? Like telling someone that the love of their life is “unfriendly” and “rude.” What about war, sexual perversion, cheating, lying, theft, religion, etc. When we speak up against it, wouldn't it offend people who base their actions/beliefs on some justification/rationalization about the appropriateness of that act/belief/behavior? Would we consider motive and then claim that “it is ok” to address? Do we hold out tongues and allow the opportunity to pass? I’m just looking for your thoughts.
Dr. T