daenvgiell

I'm glad to be able to come here and ask for advice on issues or problems I am faced with and people actually care! Thanks so much :)

I'm not sure, I'm not a seamstress or whatever, but possibly, if the spagetti straps are extendable, I would start with sewing them into place to the size that you want them, next I would find the material to fit and then... somehow sew it on. My best guess is that it would have to be hand sewed, or maybe not, ok now I'm just blabbering. I think the only way it would work is if along the strap you sewed the material. That's all I can do to suggest. Good luck

what you were away? welcome back. =D

you just made me want to play minesweeper

Leo's have nothing to do with it. I was born in August, and I'm currently in my second year of University... how does that show that I'm dumb? It doesn't! I don't currently work, but when I do work I get a decent income... I teach swimming to the kiddies. And for those not living in America or places similar... august is winter in Australia!

can't remember what level I am now, I think it was 146...

I have a close friend who was diagnosed with depression, she got to the stage of suicidal thoughts too, I would suggest to try and surround yourself with true friends, ones who really do care (I'm not saying that people don't care, they do). When you go to church instead of avoiding people try and get to know some of the sisters more, it will be harder for you I understand to do this as it's something you've been trying to deal with for a long time, the most that I could do was to be around my friend as much as possible and helping her in any way that I can, she came to me and told me that she didn't want to be on her own anymore because she didn't trust herself, and that was when I told her I would stay up with her all night if I had to (she was also stuggling with insomnia) I would rather be dead tired than find out she had sone something to herself. (I was also living in the same house as her so I was able to watch over her). I don't know if this had helped, but my thoughts are with you and I hope that you can get through this and get the help that you need.

but what if I don't have a lot of time to spare? I'm at uni 5 days a week, a very physical course - Full time dance student, with assignments to do and extra rehersals for up coming shows? I'm not trying to get out of it, I'm just asking, how do you fit everything in?

Sandy Plankton said it was a butt... wow that's a big butt... *gasp* he touched the butt. Finding Nemo

Love is Waiting - Brooke Fraser

How am I supposed to start there? I don't see how, I haven't even been trying this week. I think this weeks been a bit of a downer on this issue seeing as I haven't been trying, I don't know, maybe I don't really want the answer I say I'm looking for.

You could say that, it would definitely be nice. No I haven't ever read them, where could I find them? I haven't really studied as such I guess, I've just been reading the BOM, although this week I haven't done it at all, and no I don't feel like he's pleased with my efforts, that's if I even feel like he's there.

No I never did go and see a councellor, although if I was depressed I don't think I am now, I'm moreso just tired of being on this rollercoaster, I just want to be able to find what I'm looking for, get off and never get on it again.

No not that I know of, I just use that picture because it goes with my username, and the only reason I have that username is because its one that I have been able to use that hardly anyone else every uses. I never thought of it that way before, that's very interesting, but I'm not understanding the link that you associated where I'm at. The thing is, is that I've done this before and I go with it and then, I change my mind again, it seems I can't keep to one thing. When I think back to exeriences I think I have, but then doubt sets in again and I'm back where I started. My head is complicated, and I wish it wasn't!

I guess what I'm looking for is my own individual testimony whether or not there is a God and whether or not the church is true. I just can't seem to get an answer, or if I'm getting an answer I'm too stupid to realise that I've received it. It is indeed very possible that I am searching for a shout and getting a whisper, which I am then not hearing. I'm not sure for me when it comes to scripture study, I do it because I'm trying to understand things and see if it has an effect on me, but then sometimes I think I am also just reading them for the "checklist" idea, but there are some days when I just don't get around to reading them, generally if I don't read the scriptures before I leave the house, then I don't read them at all, or I'll try and read them and my head is in a completely different place, like today for instance, I don't even know what I r5ead, I just couldn't focus. I don't know what kind of effect this is having on me, but it certainly makes things hard on me. I attend a small private Christian College where I have to participate in Christian subjects, at the moment I have to study the New Testament, what I find hard though is that I'm the only "LDS" (if you can call me that?) person there and now they don't want us to read from the KJV of the bible. I think I end up getting more confused from this class than understanding things. Thanks for all your suggestions so far, please don't stop.

I've posted something like this here before, and I was hoping to have found an answer long before now, but it's still troubling me. I have been struggling for over a year now whether I believe the church is true, but sometimes I don't even know whether or not I believe in God. What I find confusing is that I'm having all these problems with not knowing what to believe and yet I try and read the B.O.M every day, say my personal prayers, take notes in class on sunday's, go to church every week, and I used to go to institute, but uni doens't allow me to anymore because of classes. (I'm not trying to sound like a saint, just want you to know what I'm doing and such) I also want a Temple marriage, but I don't know why? If I wasn't sure then wouldn't I just not care about something like that? I don't understand myself. I also have a calling in Relief Society as a teacher. So anyway, apparently I was told that I was blocking the spirit (that's what my mum said I told her I got told, but I don't even remember hearing anything like that). I'm so confused, I don't know what to do and I'm sick of feeling like I'm going nowhere.

You Belong with Me - Taylor Swift

Pam? I think you mean to ask Misshalfway

There's a birthday calendar? Where?

That it was my birthday on the 13th? Oh well not much I can do about that, life goes on

Well I still love Disney movies, I think it's rather interesting how they did that, and celver too if you ask me!

This is the Future - Owl CIty

You must be very unlucky then, the car salesman that I went to was very nice and helpful, I've been back to him when I had car trouble because he wanted to see if it was something basic that he could fix before I paid heaps of money to get it checked out. He couldn't fix it, but I know I can rely on him. He's the only car salesman I've ever dealt with though.

I think its mainly a phase type thing. I think horses are beautiful creatures, but I'm not obsessed with them. It was around the "tween" stage that I was most into them, but that was about it and then it passsed.

I don't have much time because of my uni commitments, I hardly watch tv these days, but I do love watching my movies. I think tv is ok if all you're looking for it some chill time, but not so ok if all you do is watch it all day.