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I'm new to these forums, so forgive me if I don't folow the regular social cues. So a bit of background, I'm 20 years old and just married 2 months ago to the most wonderful man (21). We've know each other for a long time, and I've loved him for every second of it. We're having no relationship issues, we've got through every trial we've had together. But lately I've been getting some strong feelings in my day to day life and when I pray that we should be having children. Don't get me wrong, we both want kids, but we want to wait for the right time, which we thought would be in at least 2-3 years. Right now, we're just not in a good position for it. We're really low on money, both looking for new jobs (he is working, I am not), struggling to figure out how we're both going to go back to college, and still getting used to being married. I know I should bring it up with him, but I don't know how. I've always been able to tell him everything, but I think that having kids right now scares me, and the fact that it almost seems like the right thing to do scares me even more. So I guess I'm just looking for advice. Has anyone been in a situation like this before? What did you do? Did it work out? I want to trust in God, and it seems like these feelings are from God, but logically it seems so wrong.

Hi Everyone . My name is Chloe. i'm 17 . i'm going to be 18 in a few weeks. I live in St Nazaire (France) . i speak French, English, a little Spanish I just graduated from High school. I'm going to the university next year to study languages and economics. i dont really know what to do after that but i have time I'm a member of the church . i was baptized at 8 . i met the church when i was 6. I'm glad to be in this church and i thank god to bless me like he does . I never really feel the spirit until i went to the temple when i was 12 . it was a good experience and i feel connect to god more than i was when i'm in the ''world''. I want to do a mission when i'll be old enough because i want to share my love and my testimony with the other. I like a lot of thing. I like to go to the beach because i live near. i like music and movie. i like to eat and sleep . Feel free to contact me if you want to discuss with me. I hope i can find friends to discuss about my difficulties and to share the good time