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[mamaputter]

Hi. Just found this site. Looking for someone who has had difficulties with infidelity. And chose to stay with their spouse. I am 36 mom of 5 - married in SLC temple - husband was EQ Pres. he is now excommunicated ( of course ) Is there anyone else out there like me? I had no idea there were any problems. I saw signs of his personality change but i thought he was just overwhelmed with stress. Turns out he was stressed - his "friend with benefits" worked at his place of employment. i confronted her, she said she had been married 10 yrs and someone had done it to her. that makes me very angry at her. i am trying to get over this betrayal...everyday i think i'm better then I realize it still really hurts.

Sorry for going on and on..... if you have this issue would you please contact me.

[Dr T]

Welcome to this site :) Sorry to hear about ur situation

[LDSgirl]

Hi. Just found this site. Looking for someone who has had difficulties with infidelity. And chose to stay with their spouse. I am 36 mom of 5 - married in SLC temple - husband was EQ Pres. he is now excommunicated ( of course ) Is there anyone else out there like me? I had no idea there were any problems. I saw signs of his personality change but i thought he was just overwhelmed with stress. Turns out he was stressed - his "friend with benefits" worked at his place of employment. i confronted her, she said she had been married 10 yrs and someone had done it to her. that makes me very angry at her. i am trying to get over this betrayal...everyday i think i'm better then I realize it still really hurts.

Sorry for going on and on..... if you have this issue would you please contact me.

Hi! I'm sorry that you had to go through this. I will pray that you can find the strength and understanding to work past this!

Take care and best wishes! Jenni:)

[Palerider]

Hi. Just found this site. Looking for someone who has had difficulties with infidelity. And chose to stay with their spouse. I am 36 mom of 5 - married in SLC temple - husband was EQ Pres. he is now excommunicated ( of course ) Is there anyone else out there like me? I had no idea there were any problems. I saw signs of his personality change but i thought he was just overwhelmed with stress. Turns out he was stressed - his "friend with benefits" worked at his place of employment. i confronted her, she said she had been married 10 yrs and someone had done it to her. that makes me very angry at her. i am trying to get over this betrayal...everyday i think i'm better then I realize it still really hurts.

Sorry for going on and on..... if you have this issue would you please contact me.

Have you talked with anyone about this...or....your past that part and just looking for support from others who have been thru this...

[Moksha]

Seems there are posters on the Advice Fourum here at LDS.net who have similar experiences. You could check that forum out. :)

[Guest missingsomething]

Many of us have endured this. Not all have been able to stay with spouse. Just pray and know we will pray for you too.

And remember - this had NOTHING to do with you! (not saying you feel that way... just saying.. DONT) :)

[siouxz72]

Welcome to the site! Sorry to read about your sitch.. Moksha's right, check out the adult advice section. Just send pam an email saying you're over 18 and she'll get those opened right up for you.

Edited February 21, 2009 by siouxz72
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