Feeling Spirtually down in the dumps

[AngelLynn]

I've had a really horrible week. I didn't get a job I had applied for. I was told to wait by my bishop before I can get my temple recommend due to some personal issues. I feel like I've done everything to try and raise my sprits but I still feel like crud. I've read scriptures, specifically I read D&C 121 which did help some, I've asked for blessings, I've prayed. I still feel very, very low. It's as no matter how hard I pray, or no matter how I try to look for comfort I feel lower and lower. I was so sure I was going to get this job as well. I had prayed so much about the job and felt the Sprit through the whole process. I was so sure I was going to get the job and so the let down was really hard. Not to mention feeling really addled and confused. And now my father states that he might be able to get me a job where he works, and that only makes me feel even more ashamed because I hate to rely on nepotism in getting a job. Plus I really don't want to work where he works either. Yet, I don't want to look a gift horse in the mouth either. *sighs*

[Seanette]

Wish I could do more to help, besides offering a sisterly cyber-hug and praying for you.

[AngelLynn]

Thank you very much. What hurts even more is that this is the secound job I've been passed up on. So it hurts even more. I decided even though I felt really down in the dumps to write the fellow who sent me the rejection letter a thank you for considering me for the position.

I know I'll get over it, but I am still smarting really good over it. It's a hard job market, but I feel like I keep getting striked out at the gate. I have my degree and all, but I've been unemployed for seven months and there hasn't been anything at all.

[Guest Lovely12]

I've had a rough week, too! You are not alone. Remember to count your blessings and keep praying. Things will get better. As my grandmother use to say, "This, too, will pass!"

Hugs and Kisses to you, AngelLynn!

[dazed-and-confused]

Yep...things can get sticky, sometimes when we feel they're not going our way. And it is a tough job market for many, many people. Competition is high for every job. You aren't alone in this, in that many are going through it, and that HF knows whats going on in your life, too..........But the fact is, sometimes life is hard, and sometimes it hurts..and thats life........but dont believe for a second that i say these things in some negative tone, because i dont.......it's from experience.......things will get better.....and if you need a job, maybe you should take whats available for now, get some experience, and then see what other opportunities are out there.....................................................and, oh yes...........here's a hug.........lol

[skalenfehl]

It's been a rough couple years for me. Last weekend was no easier and I actually wrote a blog about it. Please take a moment to read it:

Blogs » who told you that you couldn't » LDS Mormon Network

I only share this because had I not made a choice to pray for strength, I would not have been prepared for an even tougher week, the one I just had. Monday morning I totaled my car hitting a deer going 75 on the highway. I'm lucky to be alive. Can't say the same for the deer or my car. Same week my truck breaks down on my wife and now it's in the shop. An entire series of unfortunate events ended last night with a big rain that leaked into my front room. Time to find and fix a bad leak in my roof. When it rains it pours. But whatever trials befall us, we were created to be stronger than all of them and we have it in us to overcome them. I believe that my trials are custom tailored for me so that I continually reach for the Lord's hand in my life. And I recognize His hand in my life. I shared this in testimony meeting today. I stood to be counted among my ward members, who all face personal struggles of their own, yet showed up to church because it is where we need to be. You are not alone. I hope and pray that you find the comfort and strength that you need to get through your trials. Best wishes.

[AngelLynn]

It's been a rough couple years for me. Last weekend was no easier and I actually wrote a blog about it. Please take a moment to read it:

Blogs » who told you that you couldn't » LDS Mormon Network

I only share this because had I not made a choice to pray for strength, I would not have been prepared for an even tougher week, the one I just had. Monday morning I totaled my car hitting a deer going 75 on the highway. I'm lucky to be alive. Can't say the same for the deer or my car. Same week my truck breaks down on my wife and now it's in the shop. An entire series of unfortunate events ended last night with a big rain that leaked into my front room. Time to find and fix a bad leak in my roof. When it rains it pours. But whatever trials befall us, we were created to be stronger than all of them and we have it in us to overcome them. I believe that my trials are custom tailored for me so that I continually reach for the Lord's hand in my life. And I recognize His hand in my life. I shared this in testimony meeting today. I stood to be counted among my ward members, who all face personal struggles of their own, yet showed up to church because it is where we need to be. You are not alone. I hope and pray that you find the comfort and strength that you need to get through your trials. Best wishes.

Thank you for sharing. I remember my blessing that my father gave to me in regards to my worries, my suffering, and pain. What sticks out now was the fact that I was told: That there were many men and women who were groaning as well. That I am not alone in feeling this way.

[Guest]

When I'm feeling low, I watch this video. It uplifts me. Maybe it will help you too?

Are You Going To Finish Strong? Nick Vujicic Video

Also, there's this story about the man who was chosen by God to move a big rock. The man wakes up at sunrise and labors until sunset pushing on the rock. Weeks pass and the rock never budged. But, the man has such a strong faith in God that he continues to pray for God to help him in his task of moving the rock. And every sunrise, he starts pushing the rock all the way to sunset. After a year, the man's faith wavered and he cried out to God, "You are not answering my prayers, God! I have not grown this entire year and I have not accomplished anything. The rock will not budge!". God replied, "My son, look at your arms -they have grown stronger and corded with muscles. Look at your legs, they are big and strong as a tree trunks. Look at your body, it is healthy and better prepared for labor. Those are the blessings I have given you for your unwavering faith in me. Now step aside and I'll move the rock."

So, it might seem like your prayers are not being answered but God may have a purpose for this. Just keep the faith and keep on chugging along.

Dunno if this helps. But, in any case, you're in my prayers.

[pam]

That's an awesome video. I have it on my profile page.

[Dee23]

What I find to helpful in the midst of life's craziness, is just be still and feel how much love Heavenly Father surrounds you with. In a small voice He says "I am here." I pray that things will get better for you. That you will heed His will. In time things will become brighter; although it seems so dark today.

Hugs

[maybeinNH]

I always find if I can keep an additude of grattitude I feel better no matter what is going on. Fill your prayers with thanksgiving Your HF loves and knows whats best for you. HUGS!!!! It will all work out!

[pam]

Hey maybeinNH...you haven't updated us lately on the missionary lessons...are you still taking them or did you make the plunge?