bytor2112 Posted June 14, 2012 Report Posted June 14, 2012 This man should seriously go to jail....When a prosecutor told her that the father of her child had 20 other children she said her knees buckled, “At that time, three years ago, my child was the 21st child. Yeah, that would be overwhelming for anybody.” Quote
Bini Posted June 15, 2012 Report Posted June 15, 2012 I suppose I should read the link but didn't these women see a fiery red flag with this fellow? Quote
Backroads Posted June 15, 2012 Report Posted June 15, 2012 That's my thought. With so many other women connected to this man, odds are a woman down the line of baby mamas would protest. Or at least notice something wasn't smelling right. Quote
Backroads Posted June 15, 2012 Report Posted June 15, 2012 Yet in a way it's very sad. The man clearly can't support all those kids, and many of the moms don't seem able to. Pure example of destruction of the family unit. This is not how it's supposed to go. Quote
Vort Posted June 15, 2012 Report Posted June 15, 2012 I was going to write something deeply uncomplimentary about the woman. But then I decided, why? What purpose would it serve to declaim and mock her for her stupidity? Satan laughs and his angels rejoice. I do not want to be the accuser. Why people willingly choose evil and foolishness, I don't understand, even when I'm the one choosing it. Quote
RipplecutBuddha Posted June 15, 2012 Report Posted June 15, 2012 and in the end, it is the children with the most at risk. Sad on all fronts, really. Quote
mhsmd Posted June 20, 2012 Report Posted June 20, 2012 I know a woman who met a guy at AA, he claimed his car broke down and needed to spend the night at her apartment, and raped her. She was impregnated by said rape. She later found out that he had impregnated 2 other women around the same time, and there are multiple others within the area. But they don't associate in the same circles, so these women didn't know each other. Sure there were red flags, but this woman I know was just trying to be kind. A different situation than in the article, but still an example of how a woman would not know. Of course, there is also the culture surrounding sexual relations today. It is just far more acceptable to have children out of wedlock. If the guy is sending $6 or $9 every month, and does make some effort at keeping in contact with this one child then maybe he is doing all he can. He has 21 kids!! Imagine how he'd have to divide up his time and money! Yeah, he was completely irresponsible. But we don't know who he is today, just who he was then. (I've been reading a TON of talks and scriptures about forgiveness and judging others lately. I think it's starting to show. hahaha!) Quote
Jennarator Posted June 20, 2012 Report Posted June 20, 2012 My ex owes me 15 grand in child support.....lol.... Quote
Bini Posted June 21, 2012 Report Posted June 21, 2012 Yes I'm sure owing child support is not uncommon but.. 15 women in a row.. Quote
NadiaStar Posted June 21, 2012 Report Posted June 21, 2012 I know a woman who met a guy at AA, he claimed his car broke down and needed to spend the night at her apartment, and raped her. She was impregnated by said rape. She later found out that he had impregnated 2 other women around the same time, and there are multiple others within the area. But they don't associate in the same circles, so these women didn't know each other. Sure there were red flags, but this woman I know was just trying to be kind. A different situation than in the article, but still an example of how a woman would not know.Of course, there is also the culture surrounding sexual relations today. It is just far more acceptable to have children out of wedlock. If the guy is sending $6 or $9 every month, and does make some effort at keeping in contact with this one child then maybe he is doing all he can. He has 21 kids!! Imagine how he'd have to divide up his time and money! Yeah, he was completely irresponsible. But we don't know who he is today, just who he was then. (I've been reading a TON of talks and scriptures about forgiveness and judging others lately. I think it's starting to show. hahaha!)I agree. Better than ignoring all the women and kids. Quote
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