Bini Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 Where do you live? Guys grabbing other guys when I was growing up would have led to a major bum kicking.I saw it in high school a lot, and I attended high school here in Utah. I also saw it a lot with college aged males goofing around. I've seen my brothers do it. I don't believe there is a sexual connection to it, I just don't but my POINT was that this is something that is typically done within a group of males and NOT within a group of females. Quote
Vort Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 Where do you live? Guys grabbing other guys when I was growing up would have led to a major bum kicking.I was only "molested" like this once, in the showers in eighth or ninth grade, when one of the early-maturing "alpha" jerks (I was a late bloomer, of course) smeared what we called "heat" (something that looked like yellow petroleum jelly and felt kind of like Ben-Gay) on my genitals. The joke was that when you went to wash it off, the water supposedly made it hotter. So it wasn't common by any means where I experienced it in small-town eastern Washington. Probably due as much to the utter lack of rational capacity of the average 15-year-old boy as anything else. Quote
RipFoster Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 On the other side, I know many women who frequently discuss intimate details about their sex life with other women. I have never heard of such conversation among men Quote
Bini Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 Vort, that sounds very unpleasant!On the other side, I know many women who frequently discuss intimate details about their sex life with other women. I have never heard of such conversation among menI would say that this is pretty accurate. Although, my husband has told me that he's had guys at work bring up the topic of sex, and they'll whine about certain things their wives will not do in the bedroom. My husband doesn't participate in these discussions but he does tell me the kind of stuff that has gone on at his work. Quote
MorningStar Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 I was only "molested" like this once, in the showers in eighth or ninth grade, when one of the early-maturing "alpha" jerks (I was a late bloomer, of course) smeared what we called "heat" (something that looked like yellow petroleum jelly and felt kind of like Ben-Gay) on my genitals. The joke was that when you went to wash it off, the water supposedly made it hotter. So it wasn't common by any means where I experienced it in small-town eastern Washington. Probably due as much to the utter lack of rational capacity of the average 15-year-old boy as anything else. NUH UH!!!! Ohmygosh. Why? WHY?! Quote
MorningStar Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 When a man urinates, he does not undress, exposing only enough to get the job done. So it's not really comparable to women's urination. (Plus, women go to the bathroom in groups, which, let's face it, is just plain weird.)And writing your name in the snow is more fun than you might think. I'm in awe of the women who can write her name in the snow. It's not for the peeing part. It's for the primping. Also, I once had a friend who wanted me to assure her that her pad wasn't leaking. Quote
MorningStar Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 On the other side, I know many women who frequently discuss intimate details about their sex life with other women. I have never heard of such conversation among men Really? Like how detailed? I need know. All of it! I do know guys who talk about it. I overheard such unpleasant conversations. Ugh. Quote
RipFoster Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 From what my wife tells me, about as detailed as you can get. I know of men who make crude sexual comments, but none that share intimate experiences Quote
Vort Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 NUH UH!!!! Ohmygosh. Why? WHY?!Why? Because it was funny, of course. Side-splittingly funny. What could be funnier than smearing heat-inducing chemicals on someone's genitalia? Teenage boys know humor. Quote
MorningStar Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 You must have been laughing pretty hard while you endured the searing pain. Quote
Vort Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 You must have been laughing pretty hard while you endured the searing pain.Yes, I laughed, while the shower disguised my bitter tears.j/k. If there is one thing a boy learns very, very early in school, it is that you Do Not Cry. Ever. Laugh instead, if you must (and can). By the time you're fifteen, someone could pretty near castrate you before you would dare shed tears over it.PS It wasn't as hot as all that. Quite overrated, really. Quote
MorningStar Posted September 7, 2012 Report Posted September 7, 2012 Yes, I laughed, while the shower disguised my bitter tears.j/k. If there is one thing a boy learns very, very early in school, it is that you Do Not Cry. Ever. Laugh instead, if you must (and can). By the time you're fifteen, someone could pretty near castrate you before you would dare shed tears over it.PS It wasn't as hot as all that. Quite overrated, really. Some kids threw my nephew's gym clothes in the toilet. I'll let him know how much funnier it could have been for him. Quote
Guest Posted September 8, 2012 Report Posted September 8, 2012 I had friends who liked to share details of their sex life. I refused to do so and didn't really want to know their husbands' fetishes and preferences, so frankly I started avoiding them altogether. What a violation. Quote
Wingnut Posted September 8, 2012 Report Posted September 8, 2012 Are a lot of LDS women reading that?http://www.lds.net/forums/book-club/47383-disappointed.html Quote
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