How long have you all personally dated someone before making it official?

[Guest MormonGator]

Just now, Mordo_Rigby said:

Thank you!  I figured I'd give you an update.  I had another date with her today and I told her basically what you suggested more or less.  I said something along the lines of "I've really enjoyed going on dates with you and I really like you.  Would you like to continue dating and see where this goes?"  And she said that she would love to if I would want to.  So, that's a pretty good sign! =)

I seriously hope it works out for you bud. God bless you and this girl. We're all praying for you! 

[Mordo_Rigby]

1 minute ago, MormonGator said:

I seriously hope it works out for you bud. God bless you and this girl. We're all praying for you! 

Thank you!  I hope it works out as well!  I really like this girl!

[BeccaKirstyn]

16 minutes ago, Mordo_Rigby said:

Thank you!  I figured I'd give you an update.  I had another date with her today and I told her basically what you suggested more or less.  I said something along the lines of "I've really enjoyed going on dates with you and I really like you.  Would you like to continue dating and see where this goes?"  And she said that she would love to if I do.  So, that's a pretty good sign! =)

Awesome! That sounds like a great sign to feel more secure in how you're feeling. Just keep being open and honest with what you're feeling as you move forward and I'm sure she will do the same in return! 

[clbent04]

4 minutes ago, Mordo_Rigby said:

Thank you!  I figured I'd give you an update.  I had another date with her today and I told her basically what you suggested more or less.  I said something along the lines of "I've really enjoyed going on dates with you and I really like you.  Would you like to continue dating and see where this goes?"  And she said that she would love to if I do.  So, that's a pretty good sign! =)

Nice going!  She sounds just as excited at the prospect continuing dating.  In my opinion, best radar for when a girl likes you is when she puts out a vibe of "giddiness".  Does she respond quickly to your texts, does she sometimes text you first, does she seem sincere in her affirmation of wanting to continue dating?  So just keep the "giddiness" radar turned on and roll with the punches. May the good vibes continue!

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On 8/8/2017 at 11:13 AM, Mordo_Rigby said:

Or at least asking what the other person wants from dating. I'm an RM and I've gone on several dates with a girl I met on Mutual(the app). I looked for advice elsewhere, but the non LDS world has answers that most often involve having sex before making a relationship official, which obviously I'm looking to have a relationship worthy of temple marriage, so I figured I'd ask here. Also, when you do bring it up, how have you done so in a way that doesn't send the other person running from awkwardness? Thanks!

I feel it's official when both parties agree it's exclusive and neither are looking at other dating options. I don't think this needs to be overthought, personally.