Maureen

I'm sure that this act of thoughtfulness is purely out of the kindness of Snow's heart, but don't be too surprised if some forensic investigators come knocking on your door in the near future. (I'm giving you a head start) M.

1. Name? – Maureen 2. Age? – 45 3. Where born? – Viking, Alberta / Live now? – Edmonton 4. Who do you live with? – Husband, Daughter & Son (Niece has moved (almost) back home) 5. Any pets? – 2 cats, Buffy and Ptolemy 6. Occupation? - Just recently promoted to Engineering Technician – yeah!!! 7. Place you’d most like to visit? – England 8. Favorite Book? - That’s tough but I really enjoyed Balzac’s The Black Sheep when I read it eons ago. 9. Favorite Movie? - Also tough, I really liked Mr. And Mrs. Smith 10. Favorite Band? – Great Big Sea! 11. Favorite Food/ Drink? – Seafood in a Crepe and Hot Chocolate (not necessarily together though). 12. Favorite Forum Pal(s)? – Too many to list! M.

I guess your question does not really apply to me since I have never been LDS, but interest can come in many shapes. For me personally I have an interest in almost all things LDS because I almost joined the church and then eventually married into an LDS family. My nieces and nephews are LDS, so I experience many church related things through them. And also over the years I've become extremely interested in LDS church history (LDS and RLDS). M.

Hi Owsar, I think your best way of getting through this change of “church” attitude in your husband is to talk to him. Find out specifically from him what has made him change his mind. I’ve read that Grant Palmer book you’ve mentioned and I found it fascinating and actually learned something I had never known before. The book was never intended to make one loose their faith in the LDS church, but to give people different insight into LDS church origins. If you have an interest in history or even psychology, this book might even be of interest to you. It is possible to have a happy and prosperous family life when both parents (namely you and your husband) might have different religious views. I personally think it’s good for children to grow up in a family where the parents have different beliefs but can show mutual respect for each other and work together as a family. It teaches children open-mindedness. The bottom line is – talk to your husband. Find out why he feels the way he does and tell him your feelings. Find that mutual respect for each other’s beliefs and teach your children that you can still be a happy family because you care and love each other for who you are. Good luck! M.

Hey T'Pau - it's been a long time since we've heard from you. How have you been? What's new? M.

I thought that Mahonri Moriancumer was the brother of Jared and that TBOJ was preferred because it was easier and faster to say than Mahonri Moriancumer. Something like a story my friend and I knew growing up about a father and mother who always had girls and then finally they had a boy and named him: Nicky-nicky-temble-no-so-remble-uma-moochie-gama-gama-goochie. But it was too long for the villagers to remember to they called him Long-name-no-can-say. Did anybody know that story as a child? M.

Does this also apply to 8 year old children who also go through baptism to become members? M.

Does not going to "church" effect someone's salvation? If a person can find fellowship and spiritual education from sources other than a church building and those specific church goers in that building, wouldn't that be just as helpful? M.

That's hilarious. Why is long hair evil? Because the one with it has to use more shampoo and conditioner than the one with less? I'm at a loss, I can't think of why long hair has the appearance of evil - explain please.M.

LOL!!But to be serious, this time I think it's a good question. I am a little biased and happen to be a fan of the CofC and respect the direction they want their church to go. Since I am non-LDS I do not view the LDS priesthood the same way a member would so, I think the priesthood for women in the LDS religion would be a good idea. M.

Thank you all for the kind words and especially the thoughtful poems - I've copied them. And Setheus I'm glad it was just a flesh wound and that you are doing fine. M.

Setheus is in my thoughts and prayers. M.

Are milestones in life contagious? For both of my pregnancies I always noticed other women that were pregnant, especially at work. It seems that I was never alone in my pregnancies as if they were contagious. I’m wondering if the same applies to death. Snow’s news regarding his father-in-law’s death comes at the same time as my brother-in-law’s. Last Monday (August 1st) my husband’s brother (Chris) passed away from a heart attack related to his diabetes. He was 47 years old and leaves behind his wife (my friend), 7 children, ages 13 to 25 and 3 grandchildren with another one on the way. I don’t know if I mentioned but he was the same person who was called as a Branch President and it was his son that just recently got married this past June. The funeral was on Friday. He was well known in the town he lived in due to his job and coaching basketball. There was a small service and viewing for the family members and a larger service for the community. The larger service was done outside to accommodate everyone who wanted to attend. His siblings were asked to say something as part of the eulogy. Each sibling said something except for my husband (a little shy and too emotional). I actually said some words but was very ambivalent about talking also due to nerves and emotions. I mentioned some humourous times when my friend and Chris were dating and the fact it was their wedding that brought my husband and I together. Chris’ children also talked (except for one son) and they all did really well. My husband found it very strange they would even be asked to speak at their own Father’s funeral, but at the same time was impressed by Chris’ one daughter (who has been living with us), who was very articulate and did a very good job. He was way too young! Even though I was at the funeral it still doesn’t seem real that he’s gone. I think time will eventually confirm it for me as the days pass and we get together for family occasions and he won’t be there. Probably then it will really sink in that he has gone. M.

My condolences also, especially to your wife Snow.My mother passed away almost 2 years ago and it can be kind of strange but for me during the time of the funeral and several months later I only wanted to hear good things about my mother. You realize that people in your life, even parents are not perfect and have faults but once they are immediately gone; you can't picture them in a negative way for even a second. My husband and mother were not the best of friends and sometimes husbands can say things that to them don't sound that bad but to the child of the deceased can be extremely hurtful. So my advice to you Snow for your wife's sake is to be extremely tactful during this time and a couple months done the road. Take care! M.

Idacat, thanks for all the tips for the "whodunit" types. My husband is a mystery reader and sometimes I just never know what to get him. I've noticed the author Nevada Barr and wasn't sure about her so the recommend is helpful. I also have a niece named Nevada (which is a rare name) so the author caught my attention.M.

I've been enjoying some biographies recently, I've read: Elizabeth: The Struggle for the Throne by David Starkey I'm reading: From Mission to Madness (Last Son of the Mormon Prophet) by Valeen Tippetts Avery I've also just finished: Insider's View of Mormon Origins by Grant Palmer And I'm way behind in my Harry Potter reading; I still have to read book 4. M.

Now, I'm no expert mind you but from what I understand; the temple workers would not even give you permission to enter the temple if you are not dressed appropriately.M.

Hey Jason,It appears that you have come to these conclusions rather quickly. I hope you're not jumping the gun in regards to this new found information. I'm hoping in your process of study you're not confusing the material and interpreting your findings in a haphazard way. Here's a link that seems to be related with what you have mentioned: http://www.bible.org/page.asp?page_id=2053 Have a read and let us know what new stuff you've been reading that has changed your mind so drastically. Take care! M.

You guys? Who are you referring to roman? M.

Hey Jason, what happened that's making you re-examine biblical history?M.

I disagree again. I believe that BY was responsible for MMM which lead to the death of others. BY also tried to keep his church and members isolated from the Gentiles for many years until it was virtually impossible with train travel and immigration to the west.M.

I disagree with this statement. There is much evidence to show that the RG (aka Mormonism) has its problems, ie. Book of Abraham, DNA/BofM, contradictory vision testimonies, polygamy (past & present), MMM, Mark Hofmann, etc.Can you show us this evidence of proof, huma17? M.

With further thought to this initial question, I believe a more legit question might be:...how much anxiety and trouble would you experience if (a major leader of a christian religious organization) announced that certain books of the Bible are no longer considered scripture. Note: This can also be applied to GBH announcing something similar re: books of the BofM. Now personally for me I would have to do a lot of soul searching, intellectual investigating, praying and a lot of thinking to figure out how this might effect my faith in scripture. M.

Hey Jenda,When you say "restoration" are you referring to Mormonism? M.

Exactly, the majority of LDS members had no clue about the SL; I know my in-laws didn't know who Mark Hofmann was let alone the SL.M.