JayKi
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You are correct for first time this is me. You are incorrect for 100th time. I am always respectful to women. I raised by women and have 4 sister I know how to treat women with respect.
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You are calling me a computer aided design. Why? No I am protective of all women friend and family. Do not refer to my friend as paramour it is disrespectful of our friendship and my friend
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Don't say those things about my fiancee and me, we will have great marriage. You are clueless.
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Thank you for understanding situation, apparently some people can't understand even simple thing. The Bishop did decide before he speak to me, he has no concept of being fair. I would of admit to him and apologise but now I don't care for his opinion. He could have been man about it and spoke to me but no he disrespect me by pretending to the Bishop I did something wrong, he has no spine. Anyway it doesn't matter if my friend's husband waits for 10 weeks like a good boy, then me , my wife and my friend we all hang out together. He has no need to fuss.
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Because I show friendship to a woman? You think I am destined for unhappiness. The Bishop abused his power to make a null point. He could have spoke to me but no he wanted to show off.
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What was I supposed to do get on my knees and thank him for ruining my wedding and persecuting me for no reason. You know that you can't lose a temple recommend because the Bishop doesn't approve of a friendship. I did nothing wrong so if I have to get one in Costa Rica so I can marry my fiancee then obviously I will do that but I have nothing to lie about.
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I sent it in English, which was a mistake otherwise I avoid all this stress her husband would no idea what I say. I call my sister princessa all the time maybe my younger sister I call princesita.
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You are loca if you think that the husband is the head of the household, my grandma always told me women let men think that they are in charge, but secretly the men know it is the women. You ever met a hispanic chick?
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@mgridle I did not lie I post it earlier. And respect my sister
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You are wrong I just do nice thing for her because I care for her happiness. You are the one twisting it. I love her only like I love my sisters. I already said what I text her and no one said it was bad so...
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Okay so I understand. You never hang out with a female friend? Also, I am not proud it is only because I defended myself and my friendship you think this. I have grievance that I lose my recommend it not make me proud.
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I don't demand she choose me it is up to her, I respect her decision whatever it is. I get paid to study and I have a part time job, plus my uncle and aunt give me money. Anyway my fiancee and I paid for the tickets together. I do not know why it is so uncommon to help your friends in the USA/England, back home it is natural if someone needs help and you can help then you help. I don't think that culture prevail, but just because she marry an English man doesn't mean she lose her culture.
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I did not reject but I was not convinced that I should ditch my friend. I been accused of ruining her marriage, having an affair, being selfish, being proud and not honouring my priesthood. Is a lot of judgement for no reason. It upset me but actually no one thinks the text I sent was bad or missing church a little bit was bad enough to lose my recommend. So really I see that everyone agree with me so it helped me to realise I have a good case with the Stake President.
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Please if I wanted her to be my wife she would be my wife. When I first met her I already was dedicated to my girlfriend I was waiting for her to return from her mission to propose, I never looked at another woman. I may have overreacted saying to him to treat her better but I was upset because she was sad. It was him who said she can go if she can pay for the ticket, he was fine her going without him. No I care more about my wedding, it is the principle of why my recommend was taken away that I disagree with. it is what you do for people you love to make them happy. I am emotionally invested in her of course I am we are close friends. I do not see any valid reason why he took it away, my friend got to keep hers. If it a problem with our friendship then we both lose it.
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There is no such thing as emotional affair she love her husband she just likes to hang out with me. There is only platonic love and caring we have for each other.
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2) We were friends before she even met her husband, I have known her for 2 years so 18 months before she got married. 1) He used to be fine with it because he understood we are close and have lots in common to do. I told him he has to treat his wife better because he wouldn't let for her to visit her family at Christmas and she was really sad. Then he started to dislike me so I stay away from him to not have argument. I am getting married in July and I invite my friend and her husband to come, he said they can't go but my friend she wanted to go so she can also see family, so her husband told her if she can buy tickets for her she can go. But he was being unfair because she doesn't have a job since being married so I asked my fiancee can we buy my friend a ticket to Costa Rica and a return from Nicaragua, my fiancee said it is good to do that. And I told my friend she can stay with my family for the wedding then go to Nicaragua. Her husband he was mad at me for buying her tickets and told me I should stay out of their agreements. I told him I just helping her and he should want her to be happy. Then that is when he spoke to the bishop. He just want to sabotage my wedding because I help his wife to visit her family. But I don't think he complain about other thing, the bishop only mention to me the text. If I step back I may hurt her and I don't want that.
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I agree that is why I said it is up to her to end our friendship not me. I don't message her first maybe once a week to check she is okay, I don't ask her to hang out she asks me. I just be nice to her because she is a friend of mine.
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You have no idea I was honest in my first post, those were the only 2 reasons the bishop gave me.
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I am like your pen friend. It should be for my friend to decide what is best, the same way you did. I don't want to hurt her by telling her I can't be her friend anymore. I am not being prideful I have no pride on this matter, I only want to be a good friend we go back a long way. I don't think I could hang out with her husband .
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It is her call, I can't justify to myself walking away from a friend to please a man.
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He isn't abusive but he is insensitive to her. I am not a thug haha I wouldn't do that.
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No I said all the way through I do these things to be nice even my first post says it. I messaged her to cheer her up is earlier post. You don't know what you talk about and I am not selfish
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I don't think such a thing will happen, she is like a sister to me and I am like her brother she won't ever be attracted to me. She calls me El Nino (the child).
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It is cultural in Costa Rica all the time it happens, a man hits his wife all of her brothers and cousins beat him up, he shouts at her all her male neighbours beat him up, he disrespect her same thing. We protect women in Costa Rica, don't leave them to their own device after marriage. They always family and friend.