JayKi
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Her husband and I have a difference of opinion because one time I told him he needs to treat his wife better and he told me it was none of my business. My fiancee knows my friend from visiting me in England they get on well, she doesn't mind because she understand it is friendship and I am only romantically interested in her.
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I am only book smart not (in English I don't know how you say but in Costa Rica it translate to) street wise
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I just be her friend because it is hard to adjust to new culture but when we hang out we can interact like we are at home. I have no desire to ruin her marriage I want her to be happy. She don't have many friend in England. I think her husband doesn't want her to be my friend because he want to isolate her and control her. I don't believe he worries we will have an affair because he knows it is platonic. He only has problem that she isn't doing whatever he says. I don't message her all the time only when she message me and we only hang out once a week to catch up it is all. It is a pure friendship and no one can convince me that showing love and kindness to my friend is wrong.
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I don't have pride but I wasn't raised to view woman as being submissive, if my friend ignore her husband then why do I need to tell her not to? It is her opinion I care for, just because he is a man doesn't mean I must agree with him.
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@Carborendum told me I won't succeed in America. Oh well I don't want to live there I will return to Costa Rica. I have been sponsored by the Costa Rican government to train in UK as a Neurosurgeon.
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Why do you think I have pride?
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Do you think I should tell her I can't hang out with you even though you want to because your husband don't like it ?
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1) I am from Costa Rica 2) I live in England for study 3) You think because I am from Costa Rica I couldn't succeed in America
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Yeah is nothing to do with me, if my friend doesn't want to take his opinion to not hang out with me. Why should I say to her, "you are woman so I have to listen only to your husband and your opinion to me doesn't matter." No I won't say such a thing to my friend I respect her wish to not agree with her husband. So why responsibility fall on me to make her agree with him?
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I dont live in the US please I wouldn't live there. Why American think every hispanic want to live in their country.
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I DO NOT DATE MARRIED WOMEN! I have a fiancee I only date with her. I DO NOT CARE if her husband objects it is up to my friend to choose if she wants to hang out. Why should her husband decide for her? I don't send flirtatious text to her but I see why it is interpret like that. It is not pride from me but I have morals I won't go back on. Well so be it if they want to be men who control women I don't want their approval.
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Is rare we are in private but it doesn't matter to me or to her.
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I know him a little but we have some differences. We never were friends but we got on okay a few times when we all hung out together.
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It isn't a date. It is just hanging out like if I went out with a male friend.
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No we aren't close because we have some differences. We are very close before she was married because she is from Nicaragua and we bond over that, we used to celebrate festivals we celebrate back home and cook national dish for each other, she my best friend in England but we only ever friend. I respect his wish a little bit but I respect hers more, she is not his property so her opinion to me is what I care about.
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No we are only friend I have only friendship feeling toward her. I did nothing wrong and neither did she. Is not fair just because she is a woman we can't be friend.
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Why? We are friends what is the problem? If you trust your wife there is nothing to worry for
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I think it is okay we only go for lunch together or to the cinema, sometimes shopping. We don't hang out in private places most of the time. Her husband should get over it, she can be friends with who she choose, he can't control her life.
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Most of my friends are women because I only grew up with women I have 4 sister, my mother and grandmother so I always had women for friends. I prefer it to male friends because I am not much of a lad.
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There are a few wards near me. I am respectful but I think there is a little xenophobia in the congregation I go to.
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I can be friends with married women! We get on well and I care about her I shouldn't stop just because she is married. If her husband is insecure about her speaking to male friends then that is his problem for him to work through. Also, I am not single I have a girlfriend and I am getting married soon.
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We like to live our lives a little slower but we have fun and aren't afraid to enjoy life.
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I wanted to cheer her up so I sent her, "It will be okay Princessa, be happy you have a beautiful smile". I only see it can be flirtatious because I may send it to my girlfriend but also to my mother or grandmother or sister.
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He thinks I am a little immature because he says my approach to life is too relaxed. It is possible he isn't anti-me but he thinks he is doing what is best for me, but I don't agree with him.
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No she still has hers. and I sent her only a compliment to cheer her up, it is something I would send to my mother if she was sad.
