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  1. Or you can cut your losses and find another gorgeous woman? ( I know it seems heartless but you can't force someone to leave the land they love... unless you infest their land with narcotics.. or they get kicked out -_-) Dang JayKi, that is hard man. I really don't know what to say after all that hard work courting and jumping through hoops. Chico, there are a ton of beautiful women... if she isn't a good match then find another woman who is willing to Love JayKi and go wherever the road may take you both
  2. Okie. Welllll, you can make a compromise with her. Say that if she lives with you and supports you for school then you will move back to Costa Rica once you graduate? but nor sure how that would transfer over... You can ditch England and be poor in Costa Rica???
  3. Mijo... how could you not have asked? Hmmm. Lemme think..
  4. https://biblicalgenderroles.com/2016/03/29/7-steps-to-dealing-with-a-lazy-wife/ https://biblicalgenderroles.com/2015/10/03/7-ways-to-discipline-your-wife/ hmhmhm.. wellllllll. Here it goes.
  5. HAHAHAHA Guys... guys. Lol Sensitivity warning/Trigger warning/Feminist rage inducing... READ WITH CAUTION!!!!! Look what I found. Please only take good ideas from these as the Titles may seem misogynistic
  6. um, why?
  7. YES, I made the mistake of living apart from wife soon after marriage it almost led to divorce.
  8. So here is what I found so far. Of course these are written by non member moms, as one mentioned relaxing to coffee, obviously glean the good that is there http://www.sheknows.com/community/parenting/6-lies-we-stay-home-moms-tell-ourselves-and-other-people https://www.yahoo.com/news/how-being-a-stay-at-home-mom-almost-destroyed-my-110912124428.html These articles are about women figuring out their own time management, lazy and personal issues. I am going to look up some for if the spouse thinks they don't need to change anything.
  9. This could be good or very bad
  10. lol Rude! That first face was like "what do you want?" Then you saw I wasn't being a grump. I was legit curious. You are, as I have stated before, one of my favorites. Maybe you can help me on the Today's thread. I am not sure if you are married with kids but if you are how do you manage to keep the house clean and meals made? ( IF your husband is the bread winner of course) Or maybe you have a better idea then splitting the duties with gender roles? I am going to ask Queen to give her thoughts too when she gets back from shopping. I am currently looking at some articles
  11. Hmmm. Do you make comics?
  12. Feel free to post it. Might be some good info.
  13. I have a new topic going in The Man Shack. It is covering something I want to include in a post marriage topic for a follow up for The Marriage 101 piece
  14. Sup man, Just keep pushing forward. Not much else we can do but keep our fitness up (Physical, mental and spiritual) I consider myself to be very lucky, my wife is older than me but she encourages me to be the patriarch and leader of our family. It puts a lot of pressure on me but I think it is good thing. I can't slack. If she sees something she doesn't like she'll remind me what the right thing is to do and then let me make corrections. Let me see... let me give you an idea. Let's say in the past I have said " I am not going to church today. She would ask why and if I said "I don't know, I just don't feel like going" she would then say, okay we are not going then. Of course if it became a habit she would just load up the kids and go by herself but she loves and respects me. I, in return, have not expected her to work outside of the house. She worked maybe a month when we first got married but that's it. I have busted my butt and earned a living for my family. I have been pretty lucky as my wife has for the most part done her part as a volunteer housewife (In the beginning it was rough but as time went on dinner and tidying up become a habit) Now, this brings up a topic I have for this thread. I have a brother that moved out of my ward, who shall not be named, he had a wife that didn't go to work, she didn't clean the house and didn't make dinner. She pretty much kept the kids alive and that is about it. She spent her time reading books, playing electronic games and sleeping. I remember him being so mad and upset. For me, I was lucky, my wife got going and we have a ton of kids too. They only had two children if I remember right... or was it three, either way I really didn't know what to tell him. So, What do you guys think is the right answer? tl;dr - You have a wife that doesn't work and want's to be a stay at home wife but she doesn't cook dinner or clean the house. What can a man do to help fix this? And what do you do if she doesn't change?
  15. Oh my goodness. Today is a Monday for sure. *yawn* ugh, wakey wakey self. Hmm. Anyone have a good topic for today? I am going to try and think of one.
  16. When I think of Canon I think of subjects supported by all of the prophets. I somehow remember this being signed... but still, I think it is great and it doesn't give a specific age for marriage or quantity of children to have
  17. I am pretty sure adolescent pregnancy is illegal now. People were much more mature back then. They started working young and had a lot of responsibilities. A lot was required. Now a lot of children eat fruit rollups and play video games up until they graduate college. They miss out on a lot of growth experiences. I agree to disagree and anyone reading this thread now has two sides. The Lord will help them know when THEY are ready.
  18. By all means, do everything every man tells you to. I obey canon scripture, consider the prophets suggestions and then govern myself as I pray to the Lord for guidance. https://www.lds.org/topics/birth-control?lang=eng
  19. Neckbeard now humpty dumpty? You are quite sassy tonight. Carmen Sandiego and Sauron? Your villainous avatar is fitting. Get thee behind me.
  20. Everything the Prophets say is NOT scripture. While a lot of it can apply it is up to every couple to decide when THEY want to have children. It is between them and the Lord. I am simply giving my opinion that waiting till older is better. However, people have free agency to choose and govern themselves.
  21. Yes but was his statement made Canon?
  22. Can you show me in the scriptures where that is supported?