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46 minutes ago, mirkwood said:
Define "make that."
I thought it might be a picture you made on a computer program.
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Nephiki? Hmmm
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Interesting ideas
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Did you make that?
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3 hours ago, omegaseamaster75 said:
I never said she had to stay with him point out where I said that. Don't put words in my mouth. We know half of what has gone on in their relationship her half. So yeah I'm not so quick to "blow up" the marriage.
The only nauseating thing is your lack of a sense of humor and singular focus on the sins of the husband..
She gets to decide. There are options it's up to the OP
Your last sentence is the only thing that matters in what you just wrote 😄
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Don't know, don't care. I thought we were supposed to just live life as if he could pop up at any time. You'll be doing something and He could walk up behind your shoulder and say "what are you: reading/watching/doing/working on?"
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55 minutes ago, omegaseamaster75 said:
Well your anecdotal evidence has convinced me. I'm totally on board and the OP should blow up her marriage.
Your sarcasm is unnecessary and insinuating that her making any choice other than forgiving and staying with her disrespectful husband is "blowing up her marriage" is nauseating.
54 minutes ago, omegaseamaster75 said:He is funny to me, but I also have a sense of humor.
Weak bait
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She was faithful and true. She gets to decide what she wants with this situation. Either path she takes is a righteous choice.
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Just now, MormonGator said:
All true.
I understand your view on the actual topic but I have also seen people divorce and actually ended with someone who loved them MORE. Who are now more happy then they ever were before.
My uncle was cheated on after having many children. He was willing to forgive but his wife wanted to stay with her affair partner. He went into a deep depression and I saw him suffer. Despite his sadness he never stopped working and kept up paying two houses. He was eventually introduced to a medical doctor and today he is very happy, she loves him sooo much. They are happily married, it is good to see him smile again.
While I don't discount the power of reconciliation I have also seen the power of entirely new blessings.
- Midwest LDS, Sunday21 and Chilean
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1 minute ago, MormonGator said:
It's hard to be so rich that you can retire at 30 and spend your days doing what you want. It's okay to be jealous. Frankly, I would be too if I wasn't me.
You are triggered lol. When you get flustered you try to tell passive aggressive jokes so you don't get in trouble XD
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1 minute ago, MormonGator said:
That's why I had to quit stand up comedy.
To instead bring your act to the forums. I am aware you have a lot of time on your hands.
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8 hours ago, MormonGator said:
I charge money for the lewd pictures-the regular black and white headshots I give out for free.
And I was obviously kidding. I would suggest you lighten up.I would suggest you realize you aren't funny to everyone
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55 minutes ago, Latter-Day Marriage said:
A one time drunken mistake instantly regretted and willingly repented of should not be treated the same as somebody who deliberately and knowingly cheats on his wife repeatedly with no regret. How many times did Israel betray God and go after false gods, yet He did not cast them aside forever.
How did he even get plastered in the first place? Oh yeah, per the story, drinking beer which eventually led him to shots.
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Just now, MormonGator said:
I'm truly sorry you aren't a fan of 50% of my opinions. I don't expect anyone to agree with me on anything, so I'm glad you agree with 50% of what I say.
You may return that signed autographed picture I sent you.You don't need to apologize to me.
I also would suggest you not lie about sending me any sort of lewd material. I have not and would never ask you for a signed pic of any nature.
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1 minute ago, MormonGator said:
You don't have to agree with me. You have every right to disagree, and I have every right to express my opinion, even if @Overwatch doesn't agree with it.
It is. And it's also forgivable. Other marriages have sustained that hit and carried on. So...
Forgiving someone doesn't mean staying with them so they can hurt you again. Some people are truly sick mentally and spiritually.
You have the right to breathe out your opinions and I have the right to tell you I am not a fan of 50% of them.
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1 minute ago, MormonGator said:
One of the most heartbreaking moments of my life was when a woman in her 70's whose husband had an affair decades ago spoke at a church group. She said "I have long since forgiven my husband for what he did to me. I'll never forgive myself for breaking up my family."
Divorce is hardly a casual, low key sort of thing that you forget about in an year. There are real consequences that can last a life time.You are talking about one woman's experience. Also, how casual of the husband to get wasted AND cheat on his wife. Gator you say a lot of good stuff but the other half I don't agree with at all. This is one of those times where I encourage the spouse to make their own prayerful decision. Adultery is an ultimate betrayal in marriage.
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You are under no obligation to stay with this man. He promised to have relations only with his lawfully wedded wife. He promised this before God, Angels and the temple staff. Your choice if you want to work it out. The Lord will guide you and Father will answer your prayers. Keep praying and thinking things through.
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Hey Brother,
I can't relate to you one bit. My personality is such that I'd pop smoke (move on quick) if my wife were to file for divorce. It's something I've always done in life; leave when not wanted. No sense in making myself suffer rejection and loneliness. I mean, don't jump into another marriage but definitely I'd go out and date. Find myself another professional to marry, another lds woman (tons of worthy women) I like being happy and will do all I can to make my situation better wherever I am.
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You and your friend are both right. It is what you are comfortable with. She can watch films that fall within the gospel standards and you can watch films you like. She can call you extreme and you can call her wicked. None of you are wrong for watching a film that falls within appropriate rating standards.
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1 hour ago, zil said:
That depends on what you mean by "love".
What is love?! [Music]
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1 hour ago, Grunt said:
Out of curiosity, which church did you serve a mission with?
I never said did I? Well, I served 24 months consecutive, I only had contact with family about twice a year (minus snail mail), I paid cash to go and serve (sponsored myself) and I invited people to come unto Christ through learning, repenting, baptism and enduring to the end ( not the whole thing but a brief outline)
Is my service less than what you have in mind?
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1 hour ago, Lost Boy said:
I see people here and all over the internet proclaim love for those who they have never met. To put it coldly, there will be a sob story and there will be a response of people saying they love the person.
Every day some 200k people die. Occasionally a group dies together in an accident and it makes the news, but most people die without publicity. Why would I care any more for the group that died rather than the 200k that don't get mentioned?
I just don't really feel what I view as love for them. For people in my life I feel completely different. Especially those who have meaning.
I can sympathize for those I don't know, but I just don't feel love for them.
Am I strange like that?
You aren't strange. Serving a mission really helped me develop the gift of love. Am I perfect? Nope. Is my love tough at times? Absolutely. It is possible to love someone a million miles away. Try praying for someone and for help developing your gift.
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Hi!
I am so glad you decided to come here. If this is true I think he is a person that made a horrible decision. He lied to you and pretended to love you just so he could have sex without guilt. Now that he has used you, he is unhappy. What was he expecting? What did he think sex was going to be? What did he think marriage was going to be? Right now, he is a loser. Doesn't love his wife and spends all of his free time playing League of Legends. I imagine he is a scrub and doesn't win real money? I think this scrublord needs some marital counseling and a dose of reality. Do your best to save the marriage but if he still persist in his madness that he hates and never loved you seek an annulment. He lied to you and your marriage was a sham to begin with just for him to bed you.
We all love you and wish you the best. Remember to keep doing the basics which includes going to the temple often. Continue healthy living so that remain beautiful both inside and out. Things will get better with or without him now that you let the cat out of the bag.
:)
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What I understood is he has an inconsolable infant, 5 months, that is crying for reasons he cannot understand. So instead of playing the detective and trying to figure out what the issue is he is hitting and scaring the baby. This is very dangerous as a next step of frustration could possibly be shaking the child which could lead to permanent damage and even death.
Husband had one time affair
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And here you are making me out to be a divorce monger. You should stop throwing stones if you live in a glass house Mister.