I met a girl, (Need Advice)

[Misshalfway]

Be a gentleman. Be classy and have a plan. But be casual too. There is no need for a big fuss. But a girl hates it when the guy hasn't thought it thru. And be flexible, cause you never know where whimsy might take you. It could get you kissed good nite.

[StallionMcBeastly]

Pick up heavy things in front of her and grunt

[Misshalfway]

Pick up heavy things in front of her and grunt

He's right. That REALLY REALLY WORKS for women!!! LOL

[beefche]

Pick up heavy things in front of her and grunt

Just don't drop it then cry.

[Dravin]

Just don't drop it then cry.

So much for women wanting to see the more emotional side of men. :)

[bmy-]

She wouldn't have given the number out if she wasn't interested.

[Moksha]

Like

Would you like to go out for coffee?

Would you like to go out to the bar?

Would you like to go out for a soda?

Would you like to go out to a Fireside?

Safe Mormon talking topics:

1. What Institute classes are you taking?

2. Weather

3. Wholesome music and movies

4. Milk and possibly cookies

5. Amway

[xoomer]

Amway?

Seriously Amway?

I happen to be an IBO...

[Moksha]

Xoomer,

I inadvertantly left #6 off the list.

6. Jell-O

[Guest]

Except you didn't, not technically, though I understand what you are getting at. Aren't cultural expectations fun? Personally I'd love a girl to ask me out.

I know, right?

I suppose dating etiquette is different than the standard kind, I was raised that such is inviting yourself somewhere which isn't considered 'kosher'. Of course you have more experience on the subject than I by a long shot.

I could see that at a laundry mat, actually inviting yourself to be alone with her inside her house as she folds her underwear is not something I would have expected to be 'kosher'.

Of course my dating experience (and asking out) to date consists of thinking up reasons not to, this is most likely just more of the same. The thought process, namely trying to find something that interests her and a little more original than dinner at Denny's does seem golden, even from my phobic and limited perspective. :)

Hah hah! I see what you're saying... yeah, the underwear stuff. MAN! :D

Dravin... okay, we need to get you out there. I have a lot of cousins. They're all pretty, intelligent, and financially stable. And they all need US entry visas. :D:D

[lilered]

Pick up heavy things in front of her and grunt

But if her mother is heavy, don't try picking her up and grunting:eek:

[lilered]

I would suggest taking her to some place public or church activity such as a Fireside or out to the mall for an ice cream cone and you could always talk about the Gospel.

[xoomer]

Well, she didn't show up church, but as one of the Ward Missionaries I get a phone call asking if I want to meet up with the elders and help teach her this week...

[StallionMcBeastly]

Sounds like a good opportunity

[Guest missingsomething]

Aghh.. I called and she picked up and I couldn't get the words out... I said you want to go out sometime, and she was like friends hanging out for now... And I''m like yeah... I just felt that I needed to say something... and she's like you felt like you needed to throw that carrot out there... I said yeah I guess so... she said she didn't have her calender in front of her so I said call me back when you have time....

AGHH

I don't know if it was a win or a Fail....

Possibly an Epic Win Cause I asked if I was going in the right direction before I went to bed and I had a dream about her last night. and I cant get her out of my mind... and I'm 26 butterflies just don't happen anymore

Well you know friends make the BEST spouses.... and being in a singles ward she may already feel like shes on the meat market block. So be friends for now.

[xoomer]

we are not in a singles ward.