Elphaba Posted December 11, 2010 Report Posted December 11, 2010 (edited) Note: I accidentally typed over my original OP. I've re-created it below, but I could not find my original link, so the link below is new. Why Religion Makes People HappierFrom the article: The study does not represent the views of Latter-day Saints, as its authors said the Church's population is too small to make any conclusions. However, I don't think anyone would deny that being part of the church community is one significant part of the Mormon experience. I do know that I miss it a great deal. ElphabaI later added:To all those who emphasize the spiritual aspect of your belief, I didn't mean to imply otherwise. That's why my post included the fact that the study did not apply to Mormons, and that the Church community is one significant part, as opposed to all of it.I just wanted to clarify.Elphaba Edited December 13, 2010 by Elphaba I messed it up! Quote
pam Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 Well Elphie..we could always do something about that if you miss it. :) Quote
Dravin Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 (edited) What I find interesting is that I'm not a social person really. My religion makes me happier but it isn't because I hobnob and do service projects. At least I wouldn't say it is, I'm not sure I have a null state to compare with even though I was inactive. Edited December 12, 2010 by Dravin Quote
Palerider Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 Why Religion Makes People HappierFrom the article: The study does not represent the views of Latter-day Saints, as its authors said the Church's population is too small to make any conclusions. However, I don't think anyone would deny that being part of the church community is one significant part of the Mormon experience. I do know that I miss it a great deal. ElphabaYes...you should attend. They let Liberals in church.....LOL!!!! Quote
Tarnished Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 I am in the same boat as Dravin, I don't attend church for the people, I never have, and if I did I would have left a long time ago. I attend for the spiritual insight and edification that I get from church and from the gospel. The social aspect I could take or leave. Quote
Bini Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 I thought that to truly appreciate the Gospel you need to be open to the spiritual aspect as well as the social aspect of its teachings. Mind you, I haven't stepped foot in an LDS church in over ten years, and the last time I attended I was a strong-headed 15 year old (possibly feeling pressures that are/were unnecessary). Anyway, I'm not particularly a social butterfly myself. My friends network is a closely knit circuit. When outside of that, I'm generally a woman of few words and according to my husband, I tend to come across stuck-up and uninterested.. Meh. But if I ever make it back to church, I can tell you that it won't be for the social aspect (I'm going for myself), although, if friendships blossom I suppose that's different. Why religion makes me happy, or rather believing in God, is that I know I'm not alone in this world and that there's a place for me after this life. That brings me comfort. Quote
beefche Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 I am a social person and while I enjoy the social aspects of church, I can say that it isn't the social culture that makes me go to church, serve or be happy. The Lord has blessed me with a few hard lessons in life to show me why I must go to church, even if I feel as if I'm wearing an Invisibility cloak. Quote
Elphaba Posted December 12, 2010 Author Report Posted December 12, 2010 Yes...you should attend. They let Liberals in church.....LOL!!!!Are you sure? I thought I heard the new CHI says otherwise. Elph Quote
Palerider Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 Are you sure? I thought I heard the new CHI says otherwise. ElphWhat it says now is....they can come in..but...that have to pay higher taxes and 12% tithes as opposed to 10 .....LOL!!!!! Quote
Wingnut Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 Are you sure? I thought I heard the new CHI says otherwise. ElphWhere's MOE when we need him? Quote
pam Posted December 12, 2010 Report Posted December 12, 2010 Are you sure? I thought I heard the new CHI says otherwise. Elph We'll have it rewritten just for you Elphie. Quote
Elphaba Posted December 13, 2010 Author Report Posted December 13, 2010 We'll have it rewritten just for you Elphie.Cool!Should I compile a least of my other requests? Elph Quote
Guest mormonmusic Posted December 13, 2010 Posted December 13, 2010 · Hidden Hidden Great article - I read it top to bottom. I think it's largely true -- that social relationships tend to drive a certain amount of our happiness. I find that in my quorum that usually social events are well-attended. I have to confess -- the presence of some really good friends has a huge impact on my desire to go to Church. I can be spiritual and serve people on my own without Church if I want through prayer, meditation, right thinking etcetera -- but at Church, relationships with people who are interested in the same clean-living lifestyle etcetera has a huge impact on my desire to attend. In Wards where I try to start conversations with people and they end up in dead-ends, or go nowhere, I find myself leaving social activities early, bored stiff in meetings etcetera. One other person on this site quoted a study that for a Ward to thrive, there needs to be at least 3-5 core families -- families that are active, have > 3 children, like to have social activities in their own home. This also lends support to the theory that social interaction on Churches tends to drive satisfaction there. One person quoted a study a while ago (and I no longer have it, or a source, so chalk it up to hearsay if you are scientifically inclined), and he indicated that in general, people who are not in leadership callings tend to be happier in our Church -- which adds a whole new dimension to Church-related happiness.
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