classylady Posted October 26, 2012 Report Share Posted October 26, 2012 I finally found my book. My scores are: Words of Affirmation: 8 Quality Time: 8 Receiving Gifts: 3 Acts of Service: 8 Physical Touch: 3 My husbands scores: Words of Affirmation: 6 Quality Time: 7 Receiving Gifts: 0 Acts of Service: 7 Physical Touch: 9 I had a three way tie between Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Acts of Service. I'm wondering if that means it's easier to meet my needs or harder? I'm thinking harder, because if one of those areas is lacking then I feel unloved. My husband's major love language is physical touch. That didn't come as any surprise to me. For me, it's easy to meet his needs. I seem to be able to give him what he needs in the physical area, even though it's not my major love language. As for my DH, he has a really hard time meeting my needs. Especially, Words of Affirmation, which is what I need the most at this particular time in my life. DH and I read this book several years ago. We took turns reading chapters to each other. I wish we had found the book years ago. It would have helped us tremendously. After we finished "The Five Love Languages", we read together "His Needs, Her Needs" by Willard F. Harley, Jr. It's also very good. Both books have their strong points, with the focus just a little bit different. DH and I needed both books to get to the root of some of our weak areas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMinja Posted October 27, 2012 Report Share Posted October 27, 2012 My highest score was Quality Time, and Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch were tied for second. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 27, 2012 Report Share Posted October 27, 2012 English Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pam Posted October 27, 2012 Report Share Posted October 27, 2012 Actually my question is...."What is love?" It's been so long for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wingnut Posted October 27, 2012 Report Share Posted October 27, 2012 Actually my question is...."What is love?" It's been so long for me.Baby, don't hurt me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vort Posted October 27, 2012 Report Share Posted October 27, 2012 Actually my question is...."What is love?" It's been so long for me.Noun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pam Posted October 27, 2012 Report Share Posted October 27, 2012 Why thank you Vort for teaching me that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vort Posted October 28, 2012 Report Share Posted October 28, 2012 Why thank you Vort for teaching me that.I'm here to serve. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudoMinja Posted October 28, 2012 Report Share Posted October 28, 2012 Noun.I thought it was a verb. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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