Husband claiming to be transgender

[Bad Karma]

10 hours ago, pam said:

I doubt you will get a response.   That person hasn't been on the site since January of 2016.

The lack of return posting makes me fear the worst may have taken place.

That is a marital tragedy. 

[jewels8]

On 10/24/2015 at 11:13 AM, Fatkittycat said:

I feel his behavior is taking away from the spirit in our home. He spends hours looking at transsexual pornography. He no longer sees homosexuality as wrong. He has gone as far as believing parents should be forced to administer hormone therapy to their children if the government thinks it is necessary. He constantly fights with my children. I feel like I am walking on eggshells. I to,d him he was handsome the other day and he was upset with me. He says I should be loyal and yet he is contacting total strangers and offering to send pictures of him in his panties and stockings. He contacted a lady on Craigslist who likes transsexual men. Then he says I'm not loyal because I won't support his decisions. He wants me to be attracted to a female body. I am not attracted to women. He makes me feel guilty for being straight and normal. He personally attacks me any time I try to talk to him about my feelings. I feel so hopeless. I am scared to go to my bishop. If my husband finds out, he will be outraged.

Bless your heart!  You are right, his behavior is detracting from the Spirit of the Lord.  Yes, he may be upset if you see your Bishop, but you need a way out and so do your kids.  His behavior makes it hard for you to feel good to be the straight woman and righteous  daughter of God that you are.  Pray to your Father in Heaven.  He loves you.  He is straight and He knows your goodness and He cares about you.  Pour out your soul to Him.  Find a plan so that you can see your Bishop and be ok.  Do you have friends and family that are supportive or that probably would be?  There's hope.  Many have gotten out of impossible sounding situations.  Yes, it isn't always easy at first, but it can get better for you & your kids.  Hugs!

 

[omegaseamaster75]

Tough break. From my side of the desk I get not talking to the bishop, you have not committed sin your husband is the one who needs to discuss his issues.  If you want a less worldly counsler the bishop can recommend LDS people you do not need to tell him (the bishop) your problems if you don't want to.

Honestly, I'd go and sit down with an attorney, protect yourself and your family before things get out of hand.

 

Edited November 6, 2017 by omegaseamaster75

[Me too]

On 10/24/2015 at 11:13 AM, Fatkittycat said:

I feel his behavior is taking away from the spirit in our home. He spends hours looking at transsexual pornography. He no longer sees homosexuality as wrong. He has gone as far as believing parents should be forced to administer hormone therapy to their children if the government thinks it is necessary. He constantly fights with my children. I feel like I am walking on eggshells. I to,d him he was handsome the other day and he was upset with me. He says I should be loyal and yet he is contacting total strangers and offering to send pictures of him in his panties and stockings. He contacted a lady on Craigslist who likes transsexual men. Then he says I'm not loyal because I won't support his decisions. He wants me to be attracted to a female body. I am not attracted to women. He makes me feel guilty for being straight and normal. He personally attacks me any time I try to talk to him about my feelings. I feel so hopeless. I am scared to go to my bishop. If my husband finds out, he will be outraged.

You need to get out now.  Your post above scares me.  I feel for both of you.