skalenfehl

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  1. You said it better than I did, Amy. I hope my posts were not taken the wrong way. Judging is exactly what I was hoping not to do.
  2. Just tell them the truth--you're not compatible.
  3. The biggest problems are two-fold. We are becoming a society of instant gratification and speed. We gotta get there faster, not have to get up, etc. The days are long gone when we walked or rode the bike instead of drove, use the remote control instead of getting up and changing the channel, or sitting in front of the computer all day. People simply aren't active anymore. The second problem is what society, especially in America, has come to subsist on: Fast food, groceries that are passed off as healthy, but instead contain everything except most of their original nutrients. Everything has preservatives, addatives, fillers, etc. Where are all the bakeries? Where are the fruit stands (Unless you live in an area like mine, filled with orchards and farmers markets)? Nowadays what's really healthy in grocery stores are found typically in the perimeter of grocery stores in refrigerators and freezers where good foods are preserved the old fashioned way instead of stuffed with junk to make them last forever, but depleted of their real nutrients. It would be healthier to eat cardboard.
  4. Hello The Goddess, While this may be true in many cases, it is entirely possible that many women (and men as well), who struggle with obesity and perhaps overindulgence, might also use this expression to build or reinforce their self esteem, instead of use it as an expression of pride and rationalization for eating more than is necessary. I never met an overweight person who really wanted to stay that way.
  5. Melatonin! (3 or 5 mg pills) Two hours before bedtime just to be sure I'm sufficiently sleepy to drift off when my head hits the pillow instead of deal with the wheels in my head spinning a million mph.
  6. The reason why the LDS church uses that expression is because it is the only church today that is led by a living prophet who speaks directly with our Savior (who we know lives), pertaining to His business, His work on earth. We have living apostles and leaders who bear the same priesthood authority conferred upon Melchizedek, all the prophets of the Old Testament, and the apostles of the New Testament. Only through the restoration of His church could this be brought about. No other church claims to receive direct revelation in this manner for its members or the entire world but rather preach that the Bible is God's sole authority on Christian matters.
  7. Even as a General Contractor I don't touch plumbing, HVAC, electrical, etc. I hire a sub contractor. That would be the way to go. I try not to do work for people I know or are in my ward unless they reeeaally need my help. I have done it, and they've been happy. Heck, I framed the houses in my neighborhood and haven't heard a complaint yet, but I was extremely thorough. If your husband decides to do work for those in his ward, I'd highly advise making sure everything is in writing and spelled out in detail with no room for interpretation. That is when friendships and good relationships can be compromised. This way both parties have a clear understanding of each other's expectations. Never, ever say, "I'll take care of you," or "we'll settle up in the end," etc. Big mistake.
  8. Bravo! That's what it all boils down to in the end. On a humorous note, here's what I've learned in my 16 years of marriage: 1. A woman wants to be cherished. She wants to be loved and appreciated. 2. Women are generally self conscious. They probably look in the mirror and see a larger version of themselves. 3. Women played dress up with their Barbie dolls when they were young and still play dress up now only this time as Barbie. 4. Women are generally emotional, which makes them wonderful mothers and nurturers. This can backfire with man's ignorance and stupidity, bringing out a woman's scorn. 5. Women have very good memories and remember everything, so men, be careful arousing your wife's/girlfriend's scorn. 6. No matter how much she loves you, there are "certain times" each month that she will want to rip your eyes out with a fork and throw them on the ground and then stomp on them until there's nothing left. 7. A woman wants a strong man with a gentle hand. 8. A woman doesn't necessarily want to hear "I love you" as much as she wants to feel "I love you", see "I love you", or experience "I love you." So guys don't just say I love you, do the dishes without being nagged, buy her flowers without being asked, etc. 9. A woman, unlike a man, will not act stupid to get out of doing something. She'll make the man do it. (Though some women might act helpless). 10. Women hear better than men because they listen better than men. And now for giggles: What a woman says and what she means: You want=You want We need=I want Do what you want=You're going to pay for this We need to talk=I need to complain I'm not upset=Of course I'm upset you moron! I want new curtains=and carpeting, and furniture, and wallpaper... Do you love me?=I want something/I'm going to ask for something expensive Yes=No No=No Maybe=No I don't want to talk about it=I'm still building up steam. And there are only three problems that women endure that I know of with a certainty that begin with men: 1. Menstruation 2. Menopause 3. Mental breakdown
  9. I live in Perry, Utah, just south of Brigham City, I'll scope out the magazine section next time. Funny thing about Utah, at least where I live, you can buy many church books and commentaries, that are abundantly on display near the books and magazine racks and also near the check out registers. The local Fred Meyer went out of business years ago. Maybe they had too many objectionable magazines on sale? Oh, and I'm a fan of Laura Ingrahm. She cracks me up. I enjoy listening to ol' Glenn Beck and Sean Hannity too. Now for the silly question. What is QFC?
  10. Those were funny! I'll remember to keep a glass of boiling water at the dinner table next time I'm enjoying an ice cold water.
  11. Gotta love Google! Projects
  12. I like to stay pretty active with a regular regimen of weightlifting, high intensity interval training (HIIT), plyometrics/cardio, yoga, stretching and other forms of exercise to stay in peak condition. Nutrition is even more important. I consume approx 3,000 calories a day, from various protein sources, lots of veggies, fruits, dairy, my omega-3's, and just enough high quality carbs (no bleached flour products). Thanks for the article and welcome to the forums!
  13. LDS.org recently published a new and wonderful website: Jesus Christ, The Son of God
  14. LOL, I remember that option!! Haha! Good times!
  15. Some good questions and concerns. I think, really, you've come to the right place, Mobius and Wanderer, for honest and open dialog. The perfect place to ask would be in the "Learn about the Mormon Church" topic forum. Or perhaps you can continue in this thread and a mod can move this topic over there or just leave it here. Best wishes.
  16. Heh heh. I used to have a bluetooth until I ruined it in the washing machine (forgot it in my pocket). Fortunately, my headset that plugs into my cell phone that I use for listening to the radio also works the same as my bluetooth. So now I can listen to my favorite stations, Sean Hannity, etc and take phone calls too.
  17. You're welcome. I used to enjoy them as well.
  18. Here's a good source: Mormonads Click the links to see the posters and then click on the poster images to open up a larger version.
  19. Mormonads. I'll do some digging.
  20. People are blessed with different gifts and talents. It is something they should be humble in and magnify to benefit their fellow man and glorify the Lord.
  21. Ok, what's a GA, SP, and HC? I'm sure I'll slap my forehead once you reply.
  22. That's cool. That's how I started out seventeen years ago. One tool at a time.
  23. And those klunky phones back in the day when you had to put your finger in the finger hole of the corresponding number and turn the dial all the way around clockwise. Seven times!!! I hated dialing the high numbers and remember trying to push the wheel back to try and speed it up, which didn't work. There was even a sound effect if you held the receiver to your ear while you dialed those numbers that took forever to return to their original position: Shhhhhhhhp! T-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d.....Shhp! T-d-d-d.....Shhhhhhhhhhhp! T-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d, Dangit! I dialed the wrong number! Grrrrrr!!! Shhhhhhhhhp! T-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d-d..... :lol:
  24. Welcome to the site and sorry about the mix-up on my intro thread. :)