I served as the Stake Young Men's President for about 6yrs. There was a sister in our Ward who was serving as the Stake Primary President. Our Stake is spread out all over southern Missouri. Where I live it's 90 miles to the stake center. Her and I often traveled together. My wife and I are good friends with this sister and her husband. Our spouses are the ones that told us to ride together. I did have a few members pull me aside to tell me I was wrong in doing this. Should have seen their faces when I told them to speak with my wife because she was the one who said I could.