Carter

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  1. Hi I was on here a lot about 4-6 months ago until my life got turned upside down. But I hope to meet a good group of online support within the comm. Unfortunately my current job schedule makes it impossible to church on Sundays but hopefully in March this will all change. I hope everyone has a great year and hopefully you'll be seeing more of me again!
  2. Dear Jim, I don't understand why you did the things you did when I was a teenager but over the years I've come to accept it, as the actions that make up who you are. I know your dad did the same thing and I guess by doing less of what he did your working on breaking the cycle, unfortunately you haven't, that will be my job. I hope one day both of us won't be so resigned to the relationship we have now and maybe one day I'll be able to call you dad again and mean it. Carter.
  3. And just think with the new promo the pepsi is coming out with, the 'throw back' sodas, with pure sugar..... The really crazy thing is that its less carbs by 1 gram LOL
  4. My gf bought a work out dvd with a piece of equipment and she only got the dvds, which she never watched because she didn't get the equipment, so from that I would be really hard pressed to buy something on TV.
  5. That was great I needed a laugh today
  6. Pam, if you needed a pic of me you could've just ask! jk
  7. I would think it would more depend on what the artist is wanting to depict. Even when I was a teenage I never thought of most nude art to be sexual, just the human form. Would images of nude people in my biology/anatomy books for class then be considered 'dirty'?
  8. How long was your engagement, it seems like there should have bee warning signs earlier. How long have you been married? Have you looked to get couples therapy? What do you do to contribute to her problems? It seems like you may want to work on your communication skills with each other. Maybe moving away from her family would do everyone some good!
  9. I don't think it would help and furthermore, they haven't done anything wrong in the eyes of the law so why should they be punished.
  10. He is going to hate you guys for a while this is a given. He has a great opportunity now to choose the right path, keep a job and place to live or choose the path of anger resentment and playing the victim. Remember that you’re doing it because you love him and want him to be a responsible and it seems like this is the only way. Don't give in and let him back, all it will do is create more hate and resentment.
  11. Personally I consider staying silent when you know an issue is wrong is watching someone get hurt and not stepping in. Its easy to turn a blind eye and have no one take responsibility but the issue wont ever change until someone high up takes a stand…… I personally don’t think interracial marriage should be looked down upon and if right now in church doctrine that it is fine then I think someone should be stepping up to the plate. But I’m young and dumb so what do I know.
  12. The state is completely wrong. As long as these parents aren't teaching their children to be violent amongst another person, then yes they should be able to teach them whatever they want. If I can teach my child the religion of my choosing in my own home that doesn't hurt anyone physically then it’s really no ones business. Though I personally think these parents are teaching their children the wrong thing I can’t deny them and nor should the government their right to teach/believe it.
  13. Hmmm, well depending on the amount I would probably use it all for school, if I was close to retirment then I would keep my job and most likley start some sort of foundation with the money.
  14. I'm sorry to hear about your bad times! I hope this site works well for you and welcome!
  15. Right after I read this my tv's sound went out. Luckily it was a faulty wire on the cable box, but now I need to go buy a new one, yay me...... Oh yea, and this was after my headphones went out today..... What is with me and sound today.
  16. Just need to rant and get this out of my system. Today in 1 of my classes I found a wallet. I went up and asked the prof. if there was a Kevin in her next class (name on the ID) and she said no, then went on to tell me how she saw the wallet earlier sitting on the floor and that I should just take the money and put it back to teach them a lesson! I was disgusted! She said this of course after coming into class 10minutes late for stopping traffic on the freeway to rescue baby ducks and do her “good Samaritans daily”. All I could think of was you’ve got to be kidding me, and took the wallet (all cash/ everything of course still in it) to the security office, where the lost and found it. Then about 30 minutes later while waiting to go into another class, 2 girls in the class started talking about oral sex, and went on for the next 20 minutes (not sure immediately put my headphones in, but the girl sitting next to me was noticeably uncomfortable) I really wanted to say something to them, but when “I was their age” (they are 17 or 16 I’m 22) I was a pretty much as bad as they get. But now that I am on the right path it just made the girls look classless and like they had no self respect. I don’t want to be preachy or a hypocrite, because obviously I don’t have all the answers or even some of them, but I deff. felt like there was something that could have been said and was at a loss for it, especially after watching 1 girl walk in face turn red and leave again.
  17. Sure, I'll be moving states so I can get some for you from Wa, Az, Or, and NM are the states I'm crossing. Just send me what to write on them and there as god as done.
  18. Hey A, I know how you feel, this quarter I have been dealing with the same problem. Though I know the root of why I've been having such a problem. Have you honestly looked into what’s happened/happening in your life that is causing you to be anxious or inattentive to hw? Is it happening around other things you need to concentrate on? I know personally I should post on this board about why I've been having trouble, but its so odd for me not to 'keep it all inside' so its something I've also been putting off.
  19. Me!!! Its me of course! haha
  20. I would like to know why he is choosing not to go through chemo. I don't know if all the people around him are really a better judge over his body. Its a rough place, the rational side of me says of course intervene save this kids life, but the freedom part of me says if he is old enough to cope with the reality of death then he is old enough to make appropriate decisions about his own body. Even if I don't agree who am I to tell anyone else how to live, or heal.
  21. What is it? Steam? Forgot to post in the other 1, but I'm on WOW but will be taking a break from it for a while.
  22. Haha, I read Pam's post and was thinking wow, harsh! Anyways welcome, welcome