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I watched the speech this morning. I didn't find anything offensive about it or underlying. Obama just told the kids to stay in school, work hard and not to give up on themselves. Of course, it was a bit more detailed than that but there's the general gist of it all. Not that well written for the little ones (2nd grade and under) but definitely inspirational for older kids, especially seniors that are making big decisions NOW that will affect their futures. Anyway, I thought it was a good speech and had no problems with it.

Welcome pepperann :]

Welcome!

Maybe you don't have genuine remorse for your actions? I say this because from your post it seems that you haven't truly acknowledged your addiction. You state "pedophile like" thoughts when really there is no "like" just IS and ISN'T. Regardless of whether the images you view are technically legal. You are still consumed by sexual thoughts regarding children. I think taking full responsibility for your actions start with admitting to yourself what in fact you are doing. And alike any addiction, continue to consult your Bishop and any other guidance counselor that can lead you into the right direction. SHUT OFF your web access until you have self discipline. I know people think that's a joke but it will stop the physical aspect of you googling, downloading and viewing inappropriate content meanwhile. Reevaluate your lifestyle by balancing your daily routine better. Manage your time so you aren't so idle and easily tempted. I send you good vibes in conquering this. It IS doable :]

He crossed the line. Having said that, parents don't parent anymore. I would never allow my child to whine and have tantrums in stores. They would be removed immediately because I won't tolerate that.

Personally, I am not concerned by Obama's upcoming speech on education. Our elementary school will be broadcasting it for all grades. However, teachers did send out forms for parents to sign, stating whether or not they want their child to participate in this. So it's still in the parents' control to accept or decline this opportunity. Children that will not be participating will be in a designated classroom doing something else. No big deal.

I don't know much about coding etc etc. But your art work is very cool. I've never done 3D rendering projects but I'd love to mess around with it. My only suggestion is maybe rethink your web design a bit? It seems a bit plain and the colour scheme doesn't flow well.. That's just my opinion though :] But nice start.

Gwen's suggestion is waaay better than mine :]

Welcome! Hope you enjoy your stay :]

Nothing good ever happens after ten :] Yes, that's exactly what my parents used to tell me when I was dating boys. Ten o'clock was my curfew and no later! I'm guessing you're quite a bit older than 16 though :] BUT it's still a good rule to refrain from being alone with the opposite sex in the late hours of the night. Something as innocent as "snuggling" often times turns into "other" things. So, be assertive to that. Maybe do an activity together and then call it a night :] You close your door and he'll close his. If I think of anything else I'll post again :]

Hi! Kumusta po kayo? :] Welcome to the site!

I get the BLAHS from BP and it makes it really hard to find motivation! BUT having a clean and tidy environment can help boost your mood a bit :] I try not to let my house get too out of control by keeping up on daily chores etc etc even when I don't feel like it. I find that I get more depressed when the house is a mess and the workload to clean it continues to pile up.. It gets overwhelming and makes my mood plummet even more. Like what another poster said, put on some music that has a good beat and get to it! :]

I'm inactive and have been for a long time. So for me, I'm starting with itty bitty baby steps. I am not a church-goer nor do I read the scriptures. But I've been praying and I've stopped drinking alcohol. I'm trying to live a better lifestyle and hopefully be an example for my husband. Clearly, I have a looong way to go!

I like this idea!You could also surround yourself with pictures of family and friends. Might make it a bit more uncomfortable to google inappropriate things online if your mum, dad, grandma, grandpa, siblings and friends are looking at you. But I really like the idea of putting pictures of Jesus and other Gospel themed images up. Good suggestion :]

Sending you both "good vibes"! You're dealing with some tough issues. I've been there too. Hope Sunday will bring you some peace :]

Thank you, HEP. I did not know this. They are great kids :]The boy I worked with though does not fit the description you refer to. He did not know right from wrong, despite continuous efforts to correct and redirect certain behaviours. All his actions were instinctual, much like an animal, as harsh as that may sound. He wasn't baptized but then again he was not a member of the Church either. There were times when I was with him that I wished someone could bless him and place a calm on him. Even if it were only for one night. Then maybe he might be able to sleep peacefully instead of being in a state of confusion and torment. He cried so much :[ This is very interesting! I have not heard this one. What a neat thought if it were true :] I currently teach and care for a little boy that does pretty much the same thing your son does :] He is very content sitting on his beanbag and squeezing his squish ball. He doesn't talk and when he "wants" something it's often very challenging to pinpoint what that is. But there is something very special about him. Something that I have not really felt from other individuals that I have worked with.

I have heard people say (LDS and Non-LDS) that individuals with "special needs" were people in the preexistence that were extremely righteous. Because of this, the Lord basically granted them immunity from having to go through life's trials and created them with "special" conditions that made it so they could not be accountable for their actions. Thus, getting a shoo-in through the pearly white gates. Obviously, I'm not referring to all special needs cases. I'm talking about people born with severe mental afflictions that make them unaccountable for their actions. I worked with a fifteen year old boy that was very low functioning and with severe autism. He had no verbal skills and was extremely aggressive. Many times he hurt himself and hurt others. On one occasion I dialed 911 for medical assistance and help from the police. Even after such an ordeal, I knew all of it came from him being mentally challenged and confused. So are people with special needs "protected" by their disability placed upon them by God? Do they automatically go to heaven? My knowledge of the Gospel is very basic and my understanding of scriptures and Gospel Doctrine etc etc is pretty much zilch. But I have wondered and was curious if this has been addressed by the Church.

I caught this headliner on another forum. Wow, just wow.

You can't "fix" or "save" people. I'm sure you know that :] But you can't give-up hope either and wanting to "help" someone is a wonderful trait. If only more people had the desire, passion and patience to do it. Like others have mentioned, continue to invite him to Church activities etc etc but don't be pushy about it. If he declines, he declines. And sometimes with the perseverance of a friend, people do change and not because they're forced to but because they want to. Sometimes our brothers and our sisters need a little nudge to find their way. Oh and note, I emphasize on "friend"!

I wholeheartedly agree with Mason. Of course this isn't the only step to take but it's definitely a step you should do or strongly consider. My ex dealt with the same problem and tackled it by refraining from using the internet for several months (advised by a Counselor and the Bishop). At the time he was inactive but was able to make a lifestyle change by heeding their advice/counseling and abstaining from the web until he had disciplined himself enough to get back online. Best of luck!

Hello and welcome.

Aloha! Welcome :]

Welcome! .. I thought I had greeted you before but I guess I didn't!

Hello :] And welcome!

Hello and welcome.