Milluw

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  1. Unfortunately she would be able to see which one, because it automatically posts what i choose. I think i just won't answer and let it go, be a bit evasive. Thank you for the ideas! :)
  2. I could do that, hoping she might have approached more in the same way and she would just forget. If only there was a way to know though for sure though just hope she wont be awaiting my response, if i do that..
  3. Because she approached me somewhat "begging" me to do it (frowny face and all ), told me about her bad finances and that she really needed some votes on this. And said that it meant a lot for her. So its more the "why wont you support me" - i think would offend her. She is a very nice person, she wouldn't completely fly off or anything. But i don't think she completely understands the views that i have. And ofcourse i would have supported her, if it was not that the pictures makes me feel like i shouldn't. Its pretty casual, we are not deep friends or anything.
  4. Someone i know just asked me if i would vote on a drawing of hers, that she just put into a contest. She desperately needs the votes, as she is a broke student, and she can't afford buying the tickets that is the prize. The ticket is for a drawing event. She is also one of three frontrunners. She is a good artist, however there are some things on her picture that i feel like goes against my principles. It has some broken/bloody wings, and also it is a nude woman walking on a path drawn from behind. (Were about to post a link for the drawing here, but i am not sure if it is allowed, so i decided not to. If anyone wants the link, i can send it to them.) I also think that there is a difference between nudity and art, it is the way it is done. But this one doesn't feel tasteful or uplifting to the spirit. Despite that she draws well. How do i express to her that i would like to pass? I don't think she will be hurt deeply over it but i do emagine that she might get pretty offended, and i don't want to do that. What would any of you say to her, if she asked you?
  5. Also, here is four raw foodists that are passionate about juicing as well, i am also subscribed to them, they have soo many juicing ideas: https://www.youtube.com/user/FullyRawKristina https://www.youtube.com/user/liferegenerator https://www.youtube.com/user/daradubinet https://www.youtube.com/user/EasyToBeRaw
  6. I am still starting to find good juice recipes as well, but heres some juicing recipes i have saved for myself to try, maybe you will find some of them usefull :) Spinach shots the little red house: the weekly juice "Top juicer recipes" Juicer Recipes AM sunrise juice My AM Sunrise Juice. Pink lady carrot juice Pink Lady Carrot Juice — Healthful Pursuit Nothing but green - juice juicing recipes / GREENS Juice recipe for vibrant skin juicing recipes / Vibrant Skin! 4 mean grean juice recipes Mean Green Juice Recipes | My Juice Cleanse 10 exotic and healthy juice recipes Your Daily Dose of Health » Reposting: 10 Exotic and Healthy Juice Recipes Will stop here, else i could go on theres soo many interesting juice recipes to try! Good luck with the juicing! :)
  7. I saw this video the other day: And i am just curious to hear people's opinions this. More specifically about how the spirit in us gets clogged because of dirt, and that we more easily can be spiritual when having gone through a cleansing process like the one that she she explains? I know that keeping clean and groomed, having your things organized and such in your home, does help.. at least for me. Im just wondering if taking it to the next level and doing this spiritual bathing often, really does make you connect more with the spirit. What are your thoughts? :)
  8. Im confused to how you could ever become as one in a marriage like that. I know that if i had a husband, and he had 3 other wives, or just even 1 or 2 i would desire less to create a personal bond to him, or to want to open up to him. That would be one lonely eternity.
  9. Hi Jovan :) and welcome!
  10. I can see the point in that, yeah. That is also why i said in the beginning that i understand the sentiment of it. Still i cannot help but feel that it is slightly too drastic to just stop confiding or being confided to by all of your male friends. Some part of me probably thinks that it is a waste of a good friendship, assuming things would go that way, when it might have never. And that is should not be neccisary to choose between your spouse and other male friends. On the other hand, i might just be a bit bummed by the idea, because i just realised i then would have to at some point change like that with what is the majority of my friends.. I dont know.
  11. Discard may have been a wrong term to use. That is why i wrote "in a sense". (Pardon my bad english^ ^) I wouldn't say offputting, right now i just dont understand some things about it. That is why im writing here, to hear other peoples opinions and views. I think that certainly there are right and wrong circumstances to where you hang out. But the idea of supervision, reporting back about everything to your spouse, just seems so put a real string on your friendship. I know that i have some friends that has gotten married. Suddenly, if i confide in them, ive been surprised to know that im confiding in both of them, as everything has to be told. Not that i mind and that i have any secrets, but it does kind change as in you start speaking couple to couple, rather than individual to one another.
  12. Thats something i agree with though. I would never for example go to the movies and sit alone somewhere all night with someone of the opposite gender. The spouse do have first priority. But things such as if a friend of mine had some personal problem, they wanted to speak to a friend about, and he might want to speak to me about those problems. Why would there be anything wrong with that? Also meeting up in a cafe to talk, where theres lots of people for example. As long as you pull back from the friendship, as soon as any emotion above friendship would happend.
  13. No, what i mean is that if those feelings should occur, i would first then set the boundery and pull back from the friendship. In stead of pulling back in a way, when that might have not even been the case.
  14. But that is the same with so many other things in the world today that you face. If you were to precaution every risk thrown at you so that they would not occur, then what would the point of being here be? Im not saying throw yourself into it. More like getting to know yourself through trials, to find out where you need to put bounderies to yourself along the way.
  15. What im just wondering is, what is the right way to precaution it? And when it should be precautioned. Isnt taking those precautions from the beginning, saying from the beginning those are the dangers in the relationship. Wouldn't it be better to treat each friend as an individual and not discard them in a sense just because of their gender - and then say that if there should arise some sort of a problem.. each one in the marriage should honest and speak to each other about it, and then decide together what is the best thing to do.
  16. Thanks for the replies! Im a bit conflicted about this subject. As i understand the sentiment of something changing, theres still some things that doesn't make sense to me. The majority of my friends are of the opposite gender. I also have plenty female friends, but thats just how it is. Making friends i have never thought about genders.. i never thought it would be relevant to me unless it would have developed into more. And i know with many of my friends - that is just not an option, i dont view them as more than just that. They become more a brother or a sister. I spoke to someone i know who is getting married, she told me that men and woman cannot be friends without there being some kind of subcontional flirt going. Im not saying that couldn't happend, but i just feel like i would rather have my partner go out and experience those feelings and trust that he would be honest with me and learn to deal with it emotionally to become stronger as a couple, than tell him he then can't do this and that with the opposite sex. But then ofcourse, the risk of something going wrong will be higher. Did the church ever make a statement about this?