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Some of the things I suggested were also about them learning some skills, like the knitting, sewing blankets, or the baking. Things that also tea_h them new skills and talents would be great things.

* soup kit_hen *food dri_e (sorry my daughter spilt jui_e on my keyboard and I ha_e 2 keys that dont work, guess whi_h...) * knitting hats or blankets for a ni_u unit or kids ward at a hospital * reading stories to kids in the hospital * an adopt a grandparent program at an old folks home (the yw might do mani pedis on the women there) * knitting or making hats or mittens for the homeless. *helping elderly with shopping, errands or yard work. * baking bread, rolls, or treats & donating to an old folks home or food bank. * Gathering homegrown food (trying to not use those 2 letters here) for a food bank. *Make bird feeders for your towns parks * Gather old magaines and books for an old folks home or hospital for the patients use *

Those are really good videos they put out, in my opinion. A lot of it still applies here in Canada & teach you how to exercise your rights without being arrogant or rude but still not rolling over to the police.

I was wondering about this too... I'm self employed, with a very small business I'm assuming that I pay my tithes on my gain, so after any expenses are taken out. Is this correct?

As a mom of 2 children on the spectrum, one who is at the age of eight is great, I've spoken to our primary president & bishop on this matter myself. My 8 is great guy, lacks the intelligence to understand the covenants he'd be making with a baptism, therefore, he is seen as a "perfect spirit" . Meaning that his spirit has reached perfection, there is nothing he needs to learn, he was put on this earth more to gain a physical body & to teach those around him something (some days I believe that's patience). Since he is unable to understand right from wrong, and because he already has that perfect spirit, there is no need for him to be baptised.

Yes I do mean baptisms. And does the temple still provide what she needs to wear if it's only a mini?

So my daughter is getting ready to start going to the temple for proxy's. Our nearest temple is only a mini, so it won't have the clothing rental. What do I need to buy her so that she has what she needs? And does it have to be ordered thru the church or can i buy some of it elsewhere? (ie, white shoes at a local store) and if I do that, what do I need to know so that she meets what needs to be met?

Up until a few years ago, tattoos were permitted. As were more than one set of earrings, and earrings on men. I had multiple earrings, as well as tattoos.

Prayer doesn't need to be some big production. Sure, it's eyes closed, arms folded for a more formal approach. But prayer can be anything at any time and anywhere. While it's nice to be reverent, I believe Heavenly father wants to hear from us at any time. Sometimes it's a soft thought of thanks as you see something beautiful in nature, or when something amazing happens, when needing just a little bit of strength, barrelling down the freeway at 90 miles an hour and discovering your brakes don't work..you get the idea. There's no need to memorize a prayer. Say what YOU feel. Do you have any idea how boring it has to be to listen to the same thing over n over? Usually prayers start with "Our dear Heavenly Father" and close with "In Jesus name, Amen" This is part of the first discussion (maybe the second) with the missionaries. You may want to speak with them.

"the church is perfect, the people are not" But you're in the right in my opinion... nothing above the knee, no shoulders... and btw, welcome. I'm a mom of 2 on the spectrum

I don't know how to do the fancy quotes, but here goes anyway: "This past June I took custody of our 14 year old son." Please, PLEASE do NOT refer to your son as a possession. This irks me beyond belief in custody matters. So many parents do it. Never is a child a possession. "since he refuses to attend her ward." More so to your ex, pick your battles. Is he attending A ward? Which ward really shouldn't matter. Beyond that, your son is 14. Usually by this age, it's no longer what the parents want at all. Assuming there's no extreme safety issues, then children of this age usually start to float to where they want to be. And most courts in my experience, don't interfere. Applepansy has it right, divorce rarely stops the fighting. When there's kids involved, they seem to be used as pawns, alot. I would reccomend you try to sit down and communicate everything that everyone is feeling, easier said than done, I know.

Us too. Who knows what will actually be here come Easter morning's egg hunt. Let's see, so far we've been through jelly beans, cadbury cream eggs, caramel eggs, ju jubes, weird marshmallow bunnies.... Restocked again last night. Left this batch in the car. If THIS round gets eaten it's not MY fault since hubby takes the car to work all day

I just got my books for Relief Society. So I'm wondering.. I *THINK* it's the same lessons across the board right? If that is the case, which book and lesson do I study for this Sunday? And how do the different books work? Which book, which week?

I'm married to a non member. BUT, we have 10 children... so I can't help you on that note. As far as the marriage to a non member goes, I couldn't ask for a better husband, he's just amazing. I do find it a bit depressing though, that our marriage will end when one of us dies. I really do wish it could go on for all eternity.

I just went through the exact same thing. I wrote a post on here in November, looking for words of encouragement, and how to best approach returning. I received great support. I started joining in on conversations here, and reading the ensign on line as well as the scriptures. It took until the beginning of February for me to return. I asked another friend who was also inactive to join me so I didn't feel so alone. We haven't missed a week yet Walking into that chapel for the first time in nearly ten years, I was really nervous... as were 6 of my 10 kids I had brought with me. My oldest daughter was really scared about it. Wouldn't you know it though, the welcoming music that played as we gathered in the chapel was the one hymn I had sung to all my children many times over the years. That one little thing put us all at ease. Funny how the spirit works sometimes. My oldest daughter has her baptismal date in *eep* 2 more weeks...

If my house burns down, I start over.

I coupon.. buy when things are super cheap (even cheaper with coupons - quite often free) but you'd never see my stock pile. We have it hidden, in closets, behind couches, under beds... you get the idea. Given my family size, (12) what you consider large, we don't. For me to buy 50 boxes of kraft dinner is nothing in my family where 5 boxes would be needed for lunch. Our stock is rotated and used constantly. If what I see on those tv shows about hoarders is an accurate picture...we're no way near being hoarders. Prepared yes. But we've been threw it all, hubby's been laid off in the past, or bills are higher than usual.. the prophets counsel is very wise, and I'm grateful for it. It's kept us fed, and away from food banks or turning to the church when had it not been for my stock pile we'd need to.

I think he means a computer. My hubby just spent 2 grand building a new system last month. He's very proud of it. I use it for cruisin around on here I know many other couples that enjoy travelling without their spouses. I personally couldn't imagine doing that. But that's just me, I feel like I get very little time with hubby as it is with work and all the other things going on, that I really treasure and look forward to every little bit I can get with him.

I was under the understanding that not only is it suppose to be kept holy, but it's a day to relax and spend some time with family & friends. Often we travel on Sundays within a couple hours to be with our friends and family too. I don't feel one bit guilty about it.

We share. We have a rule that if one of us is spending <$20 there's no need to discuss it. He's free to grab lunch, or a coffee (non member) anything of that kind while at work and not feel guilty or like he has to ask permission. >$20 purchases need to be run by the other person.

Are you debt free? If not, than the money probably could be better put towards bills and such. If yes, than by all means go for it...provided it doesn't mean you go into any debt to do so.

I don't get it. When you're single, young, trying to make a go of things you can afford to be picky about jobs.. or at least a little picky. When you're a parent and you have a child depend on you to provide things like food and a roof over your head, you flip burgers at McDonald's if that's what it takes.

I agree on the laminete, tenants don't always care as much about taking care of your things and can be hard on carpet. Also, you'll appeal to tenants with allergies.

You and me both Vort. It's been a night mare beyond what words can express

Given what my family is going through right now, I would also suggest having a living will prepared. My baby brother (not quite so baby anymore - he's 26) was involved in a bad accident 27 days ago, that left him in a coma. The MRI showed extensive brain damage to both sides of the brain. He's now out of the coma.. but by out I mean he's concious. He's not there any more. We're now trying to deal with his accident, the lagalities of him not having a living will, insurance ... nothing. Of course what 27 year old ever figures that something like this will happen? We're trying to get our heads around it all. A long term care facility is what is expected when he's released from the neuro floor in 6-8 weeks. As his family, we'll all be chipping in as best we can, but the cost is staggering. You just never know.