Amen, Talisyn! And beefche is right... if you're in a committed relationship then flirting with others outside of that relationship is no bueno. And yes, I have learned that the hard way....so, maybe you should alter the way you "cut up" with your employees so as to avoid that kind of thing. And tell her that when she says stuff like that to you that it makes you uncomfortable. If it continues, talk to someone higher up about removing her from your immediate supervision. *just my two cents*