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    Elder Perry in the hospital

    Keeping him in my prayers
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    Two weeks until Divorce

    Talk to the Lord and figure out a plan. He can soften both of your hearts however its needed
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    Is it okay to marry a foreign man?

    That depends. If you are a man then yes it is a commandment not to marry any man. But if you are a woman I know no commandment
  4. Replace soda and juice with water. That alone will shift your calorie intake. talk with the Lord. You can't build a strong marriage without Him. Court her again. The purpose isn't to get sex but to remind her why she married you. keep the commandments and get things right in your life. You'll have more energy. do some core building exercise and you'll see results quickly
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    quorum advice

    My elders quorum is very small. I would like to lift my brethren in the quorum more. I don't currently have a calling. Any advice on needs or any service I should look for?
  6. Live the standards of the gospel the best you can. Repent of any sins you have. some hearts take much fasting and prayer to change. I would say fast and pray about what you will do next. Let the spirit guide. Talk with the Lord about the feelings of your heart. then I recommend following the advice of some of the others about asking him about his concerns. You can't do anything about his concerns until you know them. act in faith. Remember that the believing spouse can sanctify the unbelieving. be kind to him. Be respectful. Remember d&c 121
  7. I'm wrong because I used the brain God gave me to make a common sense determination. one doesn't fall away from the church after reading an essay if one has a strong testimony. In fact, if one has a strong testimony they don't fall away even when faced with doubts. A strong testimony will root a man or woman to Christ and bring them to the point of conversion.
  8. I'm wrong because I used the brain God gave me to make a common sense determination. one doesn't fall away from the church after reading an essay if one has a strong testimony. In fact, if one has a strong testimony they don't fall away even when faced with doubts. A strong testimony will root a man or woman to Christ and bring them to the point of conversion.
  9. Sounds like her testimony wasn't really there to begin with. But have faith. Ask her to study the scriptures with you. Keep praying for her. The Lord loves her and you and will watch for her.
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    LDS spouse now a non-believer

    I'm not sure why but I feel impressed to tell you to read the Book of Mormon. If your husband will read it with you even better. I'm not sure why I am telling you that other that the Spirit is whispering it to me. But I know there is power in the Book of Mormon to remove the scales of darkness from our eyes and bring us to Christ.
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    My wife or my beliefs? Which do I leave?

    Sounds like she is struggling with her testimony of the Book of Mormon. Study that with the children as well and testify. God loves both of you. You can't threaten her though. Show her more love. People have mentioned D&C 121. It truly is a roadmap. Show her you love her by bring kind and doing acts of service. Show your children that you love them. Especially when you want to be angry. my wife isn't a member. I understand how the conflicts can be. But the Lord will bless you if you follow Him and show love and kindness.
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    Strong enough to go to church alone?

    You can do it. The Lord has set up the church to help you.
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    Help, guidance, anything?

    Some men can be fools. I can't imagine what you are going through. Rust in the Lord. Study your scriptures. Say your prayers. Seek direction and healing from Him. Especially if you can't go to church immediately. The Lord loves you
  14. Ask the Lord and do what He says. Both mission and being a father are good things. Only He knows which is best for you
  15. Ask the Lord and do what He says. Both mission and being a father are good things. Only He knows which is best for you