happyeverafter Posted January 22, 2009 Report Posted January 22, 2009 I am new to things like forums so forgive me for a while. I am a mother of two and a wife of a husband that I love. I have given up a lot of things, so to write about me is so brain racking...For so long I have taken care of everyone but me and thought that I was happy, Until one day my heart was broken. you see my husband had (has) a porn addiction. To find this out 7 1/2 years into a marriage killed me. I did a google search and found this place with other women like me. I need to know that I am not alone. This kills me more as time goes on, I thought it would get easier. I thought that i would find a place to join, to share, to support . I can see why my husband likes his jeep forum. SO THIS IS ONLY A SMALL PART OF ME. HOPE TO GET TO KNOW SOME OF YOU OUT THERE!! Quote
jolee65 Posted January 23, 2009 Report Posted January 23, 2009 Go to the bottom of the page you will see to the right of the page (groups), click that and you will find a forum that will help support you and helps with your husbands addiction. I think you have to be approved to join which shouldnt be a problem. Quote
Hemidakota Posted January 23, 2009 Report Posted January 23, 2009 Heartbreaking to see what has transpired with your husband. It is now a major concern with the brethren and the leadership of the church. This by far, considered the number one enemy [using the FBI slang] for male members of the church. Be hopeful. Have faith, that GOD can help your husband from this self-employed addiction. Side note - his focus currently needs to be refocus in another direction and you may have to apply a home router or an web application that prevents, words, phrases, and website blockage, to prevent him to access anything from your home. Sister, we are here to support in anyway as possible but welcome to the forum. :) Quote
Misshalfway Posted January 23, 2009 Report Posted January 23, 2009 Sending a warm and welcoming hug to you! Hope you enjoy the forum and the private groups. This is a great place to make friends and let your hair down a bit with lots of supportive and pleasant people. Welcome. Quote
rameumptom Posted January 23, 2009 Report Posted January 23, 2009 Welcome. Don't blame yourself. This is not your fault, nor your problem. It is his. You will find peace in forgiving him. Quote
Palerider Posted January 24, 2009 Report Posted January 24, 2009 Hello and welcome to the site.....:) Quote
Justice Posted January 24, 2009 Report Posted January 24, 2009 ...Sabath morning, now we rest from every care! Friendly people kindly greet us... Welcome! Quote
Misshalfway Posted January 25, 2009 Report Posted January 25, 2009 Welcome. Don't blame yourself. This is not your fault, nor your problem. It is his. You will find peace in forgiving him.Yes there is peace in forgiveness......but this doesn't mean you have to put up with it.Just wanted to add that....hope you don't mind, Ram. Quote
Guest tomk Posted January 25, 2009 Report Posted January 25, 2009 Jesus Christ is the source of healing power for both you and your husband. There is a 12 Step group based upon LDS teachings that may prove helpful. Check the link for "Heart to Heart" in my signature. Quote
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